Hello, lovely humans. I'm Wyo Lee and you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast where we share personal experiences to learn from one another and make the world a sexier, more loving place.

And our guest today is a 48-year-old, or 43, if you come across her profile on a dating site,er, formerly monogamous, but now polyamorous woman who has been married for 10 years

and has been dating her long-distance girlfriend for about nine months.

She is also the mother of eight.

She has always identified as bi, but more recently wonders if she is actually a true lesbian

who keeps marrying men.

She presents annoyingly straight and is always practicing hitting on ladies, relatable,

and in the past has dabbled in the swinger lifestyle and even was part of a thruple before learning polyamory existed.

She's into energetic connection, giving pleasure, and watching her partners receive pleasure, and can also happily be an exhibitionist.

She has recently discovered that she is a bratty switch who submits much better to women,

much better to women, a former stripper and model who now works with disadvantaged youth,

she loves festivals and living a slight double life of the good girl professional mum

that contrasts

with her fun side. With us today from Australia, welcome Miss Tori. Good morning. Hi.

Can you start out by telling our sweet listeners, if you had to rate yourself on a sexual

shameometer scale with 10 being the most full of shame and zero being, like,

I don't even have that.

Where do you fall to day right now and when, if ever, does it fluctuate?

I think in my head, I'm about a two, maybe a one.

I don't have much of a shame-a-meter at all.

I'm like, yes, it's fun.

We're adults.

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