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REAL AF with Andy Frisella

286. Q&AF: Power Of Delaying Gratification, Biggest Risk-Taking Mistake & Emotionless Decision Making Process

REAL AF with Andy Frisella

Andy Frisella

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.933.6K Ratings

🗓️ 2 May 2022

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

In today's episode, Andy answers your questions on why it's important to develop patience while working towards your ultimate goal, the biggest mistake most people make while taking a risk, and how to separate your emotions from your decision-making process.

Transcript

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0:00.0

What is up guys it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the real estate goodbye to the lies to thickness and delusions of modern society and welcome the motherfucking reality guys today.

0:26.0

We have Q and A F that's where you submit your questions and I give you the AF as an answer okay. We also have if this is your first time listening we have multiple shows that we run on this channel okay we have CTI which is cruise the internet which is basically where DJ claims to find things to put on the screen that we talk about but really it's madat that does it we clarify that yesterday. Another white man taking all the credit from like. Oh man it's real I hear the streets in it. It's real. I

0:56.0

hear in the streets. You're black. And then we have real talk okay real talk is where I basically do a little rant sometimes I get pretty hyped up but it's because I love you guys and I want you guys to win and this fake ass shit that they've been teaching you for your whole life ain't going to get you there. So real talk is kind of where I like yell at you a little bit.

1:25.0

And it's going to hurt your feelings and you're probably say fuck that guy and then you're going to go home and say man he's right alright and then we have full length where I bring in some of my super successful super interesting friends and we chop it up and have a good time and talk about what's going on talk about how to win talk about how to get better you know this this show started out as an entrepreneur show.

1:47.0

It was called the MFCO project it was number one entrepreneur podcast of all time and we switched it in 2019 to talk about real issues but we also give that give the personal development side with the Q&A F which is what we're about to do if you're interested in more personal development Edmila and I run the RIT syndicate you can join that it's a private group of all entrepreneurs.

2:08.0

So most powerful entrepreneur group on the planet and we go way, way, way, way in depth in that group about entrepreneurial knowledge so anyway there's a fee for the show the fee is not monetary unless you want it to be.

2:24.0

But if you don't want it to be you don't want to spend your money all we ask is that you share the show it's that simple.

2:31.0

So what's up you not much man this already knocked these out the park got some good ones got some good where do people submit their questions guys as always if you want to submit any of these questions for Q&A email them directly to ask Andy at Andy for sell it.

2:45.0

I come and remember they can be about anything talk about anything life.

2:48.0

Life, personal development business 75 hard. Yeah social issue whatever man I'm cool talking about ever like I like babies come from like all that type of shit well I mean I want to answer if I don't know.

3:03.0

All right. Yeah so let's go ahead get get into it. It's not these out man Andy question number one.

3:10.0

So we live in a society right now where there's all this instant gratification right with all that instant gratification and the ultra convenience of the you can have it right now mentality how would you suggest weaning yourself off of that mentality and the importance of it to do so.

3:28.0

Well it's it's paramount to do so if you don't do that you can never be successful because the ultimate key for anybody that wants to be successful from not only what I've experienced in my life but also what all my successful friends that I consider truly successful will tell you is that it really comes down to your ability to delay gratification.

3:49.0

Okay if you cannot understand that you are trading a day of suffering today for a day of prosperity down the road you will never get anywhere because that's the reality of what it is okay what you're doing right now is you're investing with your effort with what you put in your body with what you put in your brain with the work that you do with the things that you create today.

4:14.0

You are investing in a result that may be 3 4 5 6 months down the road or if it's in business it could be 3 4 5 years down the road and so it's important to understand that and and develop an awareness that there is a big generational difference here okay I'm 42 years old I grew up learning yeah I know I grew up learning

4:39.0

well the good thing is I'm like 19 in my brain right in my body if I'm being real so the difference is is that you know I was raised with the understanding that if you wanted to win you had to

4:53.0

fucking out work everybody okay I was taught that for when I was a little bitty kid I was lucky enough to have parents taught me that that showed me that and that brought me and my brother to understand that as a non-negotiable truth of reality and it is and today you know we have all these modern technology

5:15.0

communities that make things super easy and super fast for us when Sal and I and people my age didn't grow up with those things okay we didn't grow up with email we didn't grow up with cell phones we didn't grow up with the ability to connect with friends all over the world we didn't grow yeah we didn't

5:33.0

grow up with any of that you know if we were to become someone significant we had to create something significant that demanded significant attention you know what I'm saying in real life and that's that has not changed and that's the big illusion right the big

5:50.0

illusion is that you could be relevant by doing nothing and you could be successful by kind of like skating your way through it and it could have it today and there's there's

6:01.0

it's not young people's fault that they believe this because when they look in every single area of life everything that they brought up and been brought up in is instant man instant text message food and 30 minutes you know fucking I can order product it's here tomorrow click by click on one button yeah like dude that was not the way it was when we were growing up so it's not their fault

6:26.0

and if you're listening and you're under the age of 35 years old or 30 years old especially it's not your fault that you grew up in an age that taught you that patience wasn't important because the technology was there to cover that gap but in reality and how things work patience is still a huge deal and so we have a whole generation of people who want to be successful that don't understand the concept of what like what I call

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