You're listening to Break Up Boost, honest and logical advice with the sprinkle of

bluntness, Trina keeps it real, she'll help you navigate the craziness of the

modern dating world, stop obsessing over your ex, and finally close the door on

half-ass relationships. This girl's got you back. Here's Trina.

One of the biggest lies that people tell themselves and others after deciding to

stay with the cheater is, it made us so much stronger. I mean, I know it's not

funny in the moment, but it's one of those things that after you are far removed

from it, you get a little clarity and you realize how ridiculous that really

sounds. Oh, really? The cheating made you stronger, huh? Yeah, I beg to differ.

Why do I beg to differ? Well, I beg to differ because once someone cheats on

you, things are never the same again. Let alone be getting all amazing. Why do

people say this then? Well, they say this because they talked so much smack

about the person who cheated on them. They swore up and down that they were

done with them. They feel embarrassed, they weren't back, and because they want to

comfort themselves. So of course, they have to basically sell it to themselves

and others as though things are better than ever after this person was off

digging around on them in an attempt to save face. Yeah, that sounds like

paradise to me. Not, it actually sounds about as strong as feeling a paper bag

with water. Let's be real. Sure, you may have a honeymoon period. Sure, you may have

some good days, some laughs, but I guarantee you that the cheating will never be

forgotten about. And as soon as they piss you off again, those feelings of

resentment will rise to the top. And as soon as you argue again, the cheating

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