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Hey guys, have you ever heard the phrase denial is not just a river in Egypt?

Some of you will get that. Some of you might have to think a little harder about

it. Some of you might have to Google it. But the topic of this episode is don't

keep yourself in denial. Here's the thing guys. If someone really really likes

you or loves you, they're not gonna let you go. They just won't. So if you get

anything from this episode, it's to stop making excuses. You need to get to

the point where you see things for what they are and leave it at that. Leave it

there. No more digging, no more rationalizing. Leave it there. No, there are no

exceptions. No, they didn't break up with you, but deep down really want to be

with you, but they're just scared, but they're just too busy, but they need to work

on themselves. No, none of that. Nara. Again, if someone is genuinely into you, they

won't let you go. They would make it work. Stop with the self deceits. If you

were super head over heels for someone, would you break up with them? No, I could

rest my case right there, but I'll keep going, okay? You know when you hear

people say, I don't know if they care about me. Here's the only thing you need to

know when you feel this way. If you have to wonder for one second, if the person

cares about you, there's a 99% chance that they don't. Yes, it's a tough pill to

swallow, but it's true. And if they are straight up breaking up with you, you

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