281 | Sexagenarian Sexologist: BJ’s Sex Stories
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
4.3 • 951 Ratings
🗓️ 29 October 2024
⏱️ 63 minutes
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Summary
Fantasies, fleshlights, courtesans, and surprisingly sexy minister training—BJ shares how he’s satisfying his curiosities and connecting enthusiastically with partners.
📈STATS | 60s heterosexual cis male, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, divorced, sexologist, retired pastor, musician, based in American rural midwest, into: connected touch, eye contact, nipple play, receiving blowjobs, painting his toenails.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Embracing his shame-free 60s and recalling early experiences
07:01 Encyclopedia sex ed and filling in the gaps with imagination
12:24 Teaching his gym teacher about sex
19:14 Discovering self pleasure in a dark closet
24:03 Heavy petting and a cycle of guilt in college
27:07 Becoming a minister, explicit films in seminary, and sexuality in the old testament
34:31 Connecting with his wife through sensual massages and fantasy suite experiences
37:22 Playing with fleshlights, prostates, and lube
42:33 Satisfying his legal brothel curiosity
46:01 More love, less war, and pumping gasoline as a turn-on
56:07 Sex work fantasies and craving clothing optional spaces
🤩 TOPICS | Accepting non-monogamy, adolescent curiosity, adult sex education, anal play exploration, arousal through touch, body confidence, body exploration, book-based sex ed, bondage knots, boyhood shame, brothel visit, caregiving turn-ons, clothing optional resorts, college heavy petting, connected intimacy, consensual pleasure, courtesan experiences, curiosity about sex work, early masturbation memories, emotional connection, enthusiastic blowjobs, fantasy suites, feminist sex shops, fleshlights and sex toys, full-service gas station fantasy, guilt and pleasure cycle, healthy masculinity, heterosexual marriage lessons, high libido partners, intimacy after religion, kink workshops, legal Nevada brothel, lifelong sexual curiosity, lube experimentation, male masturbation, making love not war, massage and sensual touch, minister sexuality training, mutual pleasure, nipple play, non-judgmental curiosity, open-minded aging, orgasmic exploration, partner communication, penis pumps, personal erotic bucket list, pleasure and religion, pleasure palace dreams, post-divorce dating, praise for kindness, premarital guilt, prostate stimulation, redefining shame, religious repression, rural Midwest upbringing, self-pleasure discovery, sensual massage, sensual touch, sex and spirituality, sex-positive aging, sexual curiosity in later life, sexual shame, sexual wisdom, sexy theology, solo play, spiritual arousal, toy testing, vulnerability, women’s pleasure, worship through care.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello lovely humans. I'm Wiley and you are listening to sex stories a |
| 0:09.0 | podcast that explores our original creativity proclivities so we can learn about ourselves and each other |
| 0:14.8 | when it comes to connection, communication and pleasure and spread ripples of love together |
| 0:19.8 | all over this earth. Our guest today is a cis male who is always seeking to be a |
| 0:26.2 | sexier sexagenarian who has been divorced for over 20 years after a heterosexual |
| 0:31.3 | marriage that succumbs to the seven-year itch who now prefers non-monogamy. |
| 0:35.8 | A self-described sexologist from a young age he loves hands-on healthy and consensual |
| 0:41.2 | experiences of many types, including connected touch, eye contact, |
| 0:47.2 | nipple play in both directions, receiving enthusiastic blow jobs, and painting his toenails my favorite color, Sex Stories Red. |
| 0:56.5 | A retired pastor and trained musician on a lifelong journey of curiosity that began with high levels |
| 1:02.1 | of shame and continues to move toward embracing |
| 1:04.7 | a more open mindset, he mostly resides in the rural Midwest of America and is looking to retire into |
| 1:10.5 | producing more art projects. |
| 1:12.8 | Welcome, BJ. |
| 1:14.8 | Thank you very much, Wiley. |
| 1:17.1 | Can you please start off by telling our sweet listeners |
| 1:19.6 | if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shameometer today with 10 being the most full of shame and |
| 1:26.1 | zero being I don't have any shame at all what are you talking about where do you fall today? |
| 1:31.5 | I think number one you know actually I'm still sort of sorting |
| 1:35.9 | through what's shame and what's me too. Me too. Because you know you're not showing my face today so I guess I would have to claim one |
| 1:46.8 | but maybe that's just because I'm being wise and discreet so I can figure that out later |
| 1:52.1 | Yeah, well that's a really good point, right? |
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