The Red Pill Moment, never forget it.

It's a girl named Cassidy.

That was a stripper name.

She came into work and had a black eye.

And all the girls, we were in the back, we're looking at her, this girl had a black eye.

I'm 22 years old.

I don't know how to deal with this.

This is the first incident in my entire life dealing with any kind of domestic abuse or physical violence.

I was not aware of this and I felt horrible for her. She's got punched in the face by her boyfriend. All the girls are consoling her. A girl, you can do better

blah, blah, blah. She's putting concealer on to cover up the fact that she has a black eye.

So this is a tragedy. Domestic abuse is a tragic event. But the problem is from my standpoint,

I'm supposed to believe that no woman would ever allow this. Like, why would this happen? Why would a woman stay with a guy who hit her?

Like, it didn't make any sense to me. No one gave me information for me to understand what was going on here.

There's been a lot of research being discussed online lately, especially on YouTube, on the subject of modern dating dynamics,

as well as on toxic masculinity and misogyny and feminism. And I like to pride myself as someone

who can talk to anyone about anything and keep an open mind and an objective point in view.

And I just wanted to learn more about what the

influencers in that dating space are saying about how to date in today's modern world of

dating apps, how attraction actually works according to the research versus how we think it should

work, what our blind spots are as men and as women, how we are diluted

in our expectations. And what is this concept called hypergamy? What does it mean? How does it work

in real life? And one such influencer from what's called the Manosphere, whose perspective I

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