272 | The 25 Questions Every Couple Needs to Ask Each Other

Couple Things with Shawn and Andrew

Shawn Johnson + Andrew East

Society & Culture

5 • 39.8K Ratings

🗓️ 6 August 2025

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Before you say "I do," ask these questions!. In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the top 25 questions every couple should ask before getting married. From family dynamics and money to love languages and boundaries, these questions will help deepen your connection, spark vulnerability, and prepare you for the commitment of marriage. So whether you're dating, engaged, or already married, this conversation is for you! Love you guys! Shawn and Andrew Skims ▶ Shop my favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows :) Chomps ▶ Get 15% off plus free shipping on your next order of Chomps meat sticks at Chomps.com with code SHAWN. Beam Kids is now available online at https://www.shopbeam.com/COUPLETHINGS Take advantage of our exclusive discount of up to 40% off using code COUPLETHINGS Subscribe to our newsletter ▶ https://www.familymade.com/newsletter Follow our podcast Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/shawnandandrewpods/ Follow My Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ https://www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast Andrew’s Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	What's up, everybody, and welcome back to a couple things.
0:02.3	With Sean and Andrew.
0:03.6	Today we are doing 25 questions to ask before you get married.
0:09.0	Must have conversations.
0:11.5	I'm excited about this because I'm not sure we had all these.
0:14.9	No.
0:15.3	And so this is coming from our nine years of marriage, maybe some difficult conversations
0:20.3	and topics that we talked
0:21.5	about that probably would have been better off if we talked about them before we said,
0:25.5	I do. And our premarital counseling. A lot of these are from that, from that, which really
0:29.8	opened our eyes to conversations that we weren't having that we should have had. And I will say
0:35.3	and encourage you guys, even though you might think it's awkward and like,
0:39.6	oh, we're just dating, we're not married. You should have these conversations because it's either
0:44.2	going to lead you to success in marriage or potentially a lot of frustration. Yeah. And there is
0:51.6	something to be said about just the psychological confidence
0:57.1	you have in making a quality choice when it comes to your spouse. And so the more signals you
1:03.7	could build and the positive direction of that, the better, right? Sean and I did premarital
1:08.7	counseling. That was extremely valuable because we had some of these
1:12.1	conversations and talked about some of these things where otherwise we might not have. So I would
1:17.2	just recommend putting yourself in whatever context, whatever situation you can to address
1:23.4	topics that otherwise might be a blind spot before you go into marriage. So like things like, hey, what's your parenting style going to be like?
1:33.3	Obviously, obviously what ends up happening might be different than what is projected,
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