Hello lovely humans, I'm Wiley and you are listening to sex stories.

A podcast where guests share their personal relational wisdom in an effort to untangle ourselves from societal

shame and replace it with the nourishing pleasure of connection so that we may all spread

ripples of love together in our own ways. And our guest today is a 42 year old

straight dude who has been married for 23 years and until a recent forsome his wife

was the only person he had ever slept with.

He loves outdoor adventures, racing dirt bikes, sex, blow jobs, giving his wife oral and

anal when it feels good for her, and have yet to explore masturbation due to a combination of fear instilled during

teen years and having a wife that likes sex. He grew up in an incredibly high

control religion that he fully left only in the past few years.

A furniture craftsman and metal fabricator from North Dakota, welcome Doc.

Hey, how are you doing?

It's good to talk to you.

I am so excited to collect your stories. How is that introduction for you?

That was good. That sounded good. Okay. So please tell our sweet listeners start off by rating yourself on a sexual shameometer with 10 being most full of

shame and one being like not so shamey at all where do you fall today?

Probably four depends on the situation or who I'm with it goes up and down I guess but okay yeah give us some details on the context of where it squiggles or go you go on a shimmel coaster

well with like my wife and and some of our friends are still fairly religious, so I don't talk about it or think about it so much and they, I don't really want to talk about what we do or, you know, get too into it because they're pretty conservative with their beliefs.

And then I guess around them or, you know, my parents are still in that religion that we left so like talking to them is I mean not that you talk to your parents about sex but it's you know different situations like that it's like okay

let's kind of avoid everything but then we have three kids and our oldest daughter I can't talk about it she thinks her mom and I

kissing is gross our middle daughter we can talk about anything under the sun and our son's kind of too young and I don't know you

don't need to know yet. But sometimes certain people I can talk about anything.

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