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The Simple Sophisticate - Intelligent Living Paired with Signature Style

270: 9 Life Lessons to Learn (and Apply) Before It's Too Late

The Simple Sophisticate - Intelligent Living Paired with Signature Style

Shannon Ables

Society & Culture, Education, Self-improvement

4.7944 Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2019

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

 

"We have the choice to change our life, to be courageous and to live true to our heart, one that will see us die and live without regret." —Bronnie Ware, author of The Top Five Regrets of the Dying

Dying, death and loss has unwantingly been on my mind this past fall. Rest assured, today's episode will uplift, inspire and remind, but the reason I share what has been occupying my mind these past few months is because I likely would not have picked up Bronnie Ware's new book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. But I am very grateful that I did.

Ware's entire book shares her experience working in the palliative care system in New South Wales, Australia, which sprung up from what was originally a blog post. Subsequently, after more than three million people viewed the post, it was thankfully turned into a book which shares detailed five lessons and those special individuals she had the opportunity to spend time with in their final days. Along the way, Ware shares her own journey of self-growth and discovery and how she has applied the lessons she has learned.

It is not lost on me that often the books we need find us, and after the loss of a special woman in my life who was very much akin to a grandmother, who having lived a wonderful life of nearly 95 years reminded me with each visit and time spent together the power of a happy heart, and after a cancer scare with one of my parents (they are in full recovery now), along with my beloved boys (my dogs) each in their double digit years, it quickly becomes apparent that life is short, precious and up to each of us to make it something we are proud to have lived, shared and experienced.

While we will all make mistakes in our lives, that is the gift of being a human :), we do not have to suffer needlessly if we are willing to open our minds to the stories and life experiernces of others. In the past ten years I have come to enjoy reading biographies and autobiographies to soak up as many life lessons as I can that I would have otherwise not known about (Julia Child is one of my favorite teachers, but so are many others). Today what I would like to share with you are nine Life Lessons that caught my attention as I was reading Bronnie Ware's book. While her book focuses on five overarching regrets, interwoven amongst each are smaller, no less important lessons, to understand and apply to our lives moving forward.

As I was reading, I began to celebrate as I discovered that much of what is shared aligns with living a simply luxurious life, and especially if you've read TSLL's 2nd book, you will know that nearly all of these topics are explored in depth. I cannot fully understand the emotional strength Bronnie exercised in each of her experiences, as well, and more importantly, the individuals who shared their stories in their final days, but I am determined to make sure their lessons are learned and applied forward as we go about our daily lives. Let's take a look at the list.

Visit the full Show Notes on The Simply Luxurious Life — thesimplyluxuriouslife.com/podcast270

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the simple Sophisticate Podcast, where intelligent living is paired with signature style.

0:16.3

I'm your host, Shannon Ables.

0:18.8

And whether you're listening on your commute, exercising, working in the garden, or sitting down with a hot cup of tea or a

0:25.0

cafe ole, thank you for tuning in. Let's get started. Welcome to the 270th episode of the Simple Sophisticate. Today we're going to talk

0:48.9

about life lessons learned with regards to making sure we apply them before it's too late. Now this was

0:56.4

inspired by a book I read last week and I shared a quote from it on Instagram and

1:00.5

many of you asked where did this quote come from where is this book that I can find it and

1:04.6

after I had finished reading it I already knew I was going to turn this into a

1:09.2

podcast episode but the response to simply that quote solidified my decision and so that's what we're going to talk about today

1:15.8

But before I get into those life lessons this week's patite plazier is a bit holiday themed I actually have two please years for you. One is a

1:25.6

stocking stuffer and the other is a way to connect during the holidays. So stay

1:31.2

tuned as I'll talk about both of those at the end of today's episode.

1:34.8

But let's get into today's topic.

1:37.2

Today I'm sharing nine life lessons to learn and apply before it's too late.

1:42.4

I want to begin with a quote from the book, The Top Five Regrets of

1:45.6

the Dying by Bronny Ware that will set the tone for what we're going to talk about.

1:50.9

Quote, we have the choice to change our life, to be courageous, and to live true to our heart,

1:57.8

one that will see us die and live without regret.

2:02.0

End quote.

2:03.0

Dying, death, and loss has unwontingly been on my mind this past fall.

2:09.0

Rest assured today's episode will uplift, inspire, and remind.

2:13.2

But the reason I share what has been occupying my mind

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