260. Stop Giving People Access To You Who Don't Deserve It
Evolve With Emily
Emily Hayden
4.9 • 626 Ratings
🗓️ 25 April 2022
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
In today's episode, Emily is talking about who you are allowing access to you and at what cost. Sometimes we give people access to us that don't deserve it. You may find yourself in this pattern over and over, but you don't feel you should be in this situation. However, YOU are the common denominator. What is your part in this? You are allowing people access to you when they have proven that they don't deserve it. You are allowing and tolerating their behavior even though you don't like it. You will continue to get hurt or feel drained if you don't cut these people out of your life. It is not your job to change them. Clear out the space and energy inside of your mind by cutting off access to you from the people who don't deserve it. That's today's message.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, everyone and welcome to the Evolve Emily Show. I'm your host, Emily Hayden, and you are listening to another Monday message. Every single |
| 0:21.4 | Monday, I bring a message of the day to you guys. So here's today's message. Stop giving people |
| 0:27.2 | access to you that have already proven that they don't deserve it. A lot of you guys are in the same |
| 0:33.0 | situation in multiple areas of your life over and over again. |
| 0:41.9 | And if you look, there's a pattern and you feel like you shouldn't be in this situation. |
| 0:43.8 | Why are people treating you this way? |
| 0:46.5 | How do you constantly find yourself in this situation? |
| 0:49.3 | Number one, you have to realize the common denominator. |
| 0:54.1 | What is the common denominator in all of those situations in every area of life? |
| 0:55.3 | It's you. |
| 0:57.0 | Ding, ding, ding. You're the winner. |
| 0:58.9 | Winner, winner, chicken dinner. It is you. |
| 1:01.0 | You have to realize you are the common denominator. And you may say to me, okay, but I don't deserve to be treated this way. |
| 1:06.2 | Okay, well, what is your part in that? |
| 1:08.6 | And that's the question you have to ask is in every single area of life, what is my part in that? And that's a question you have to ask is in every single area of life, |
| 1:12.1 | what is my part in this? And your part in that is that you keep giving the same people access to you |
| 1:19.2 | that I've already proven with their actions that they do not deserve that access. So no, |
| 1:24.6 | you are not in control of somebody else's actions. You are not necessarily causing their actions, but you are allowing it. |
| 1:32.0 | And you will experience exactly whatever it is that you decide to tolerate inside of your life. |
| 1:37.3 | So if you were giving them access, you are making a conscious decision to welcome and tolerate the behavior that you don't like, that you don't want in |
| 1:45.7 | your life. The way that you stop that is to stop giving access to people that don't deserve it. |
| 1:51.0 | These people have shown you over and over again with their actions that they don't deserve |
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