We all have times in our lives when we feel lost or in a hard transition time… we aren’t sure what our purpose is or we have a lack or goals or passions.  We can feel lost in one aspect of our lives or sort of lost in general.  Maybe it’s a feeling of overwhelm or underwhelm or both!  Today, we’re talking about what to do when you feel lost… in one aspect of life or the total picture.

 

We’re breaking it down and not making it harder than it actually is to get through it.

 

Here are the steps that have served me best:

 

Figure out what you want

Figure out how to get it

Get the right mindset

Get the right skillset

Get the right habits in place

Be willing to make adjustments

And just keep going.

 

Let’s talk about the ways people can feel lost in different stages of life…

 

Career

Major life transitions

Money stress

Unclear goals

Breakup

1.  Figure out what you want

Hard part

2.  Figure out how to get it

Easy part

Find someone who’s already got it - and reverse engineer what they did

Who knows the path?  Then do the work.

3.  Figure out the daily habits it will take to get there

Show me your habits and I’ll tell you what your life looks like in 6 months or one year.

4.  Make adjustments

Don’t be afraid to change - evyerhing will stay the same if you don’t

And don’t be afraid to change as you go - you can’t be so set in your plan that you don’t see what needs to be adjusted as you go.

5.  Just keep going

Dont make it harder than it needs to be

Get in the right mindset

Get the right skillset

Get the right habits in place

 

Figure out what it is, find people who have done it, make a plan, do the work.

 

FOCUS on this thing right when you wake up and before you go to bed.

 

Change can be slow, but with this plan, you’ll get there.

 

Cheers to figuring out what you want and going and getting it!