Hello lovely humans, I'm wildly and you are listening to sex stories, a

podcast where we share personal stories in an effort to understand and connect with one another so that we may all lead better laid lives.

Our guest today is a 53 year old recently-ish single non-monogamous straight dude who grew up on the upper west side of Manhattan in the late 80s.

He is into novel sexual situations and throughout his life has experienced many different deaths

of connection with his partners which we are going to hear about.

He is also into prostate massage, his cock being worshipped deeply, giving and once receiving

anal, and he even surprised himself by being super duper into helping a

partner fulfill a double penetration fantasy in a threesome with two penises and

one pussy owner. A software engineer, house renovator, and, whose book Seek The Risk is about his journey into non-monogamy.

With us today from New York, Welcome Adam.

Hi, Wai, it's great to be here.

I'm so excited to have you here.

Can you please start off by telling us,

if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame a meter with 10 being the most full of shame

and one being like, nah, I'm good.

Where do you fall today and what is that kind of roller coaster of

shame being like for you throughout your lifetime? Right so it somewhat depends on who

I'm with but if I had to give an average I would say I'm probably between a two and a three it started way higher when I was

younger coming from a somewhat more traditional background probably say I was in the six

range and as I got older went out in the world and started realizing that sex is normal slowly surely it definitely kept getting lower and lower

I actually maybe get to five

until I met Jane, who the book is about,

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