Hello lovely humans, I'm wildly, and you are listening to sex stories, a

podcast where we share stories to smash shame and make the world a

sexier more loving place where taking care of each other is the norm.

And our guest today is an original shame-destroying revolutionary,

a sex and relationship coach, educator, and co-owner of a mother-daughter-owned pleasure boutique.

She is a painfully straight non-monogamous person who is into sensual domes who love pussy worship,

and has a tried and true method of drive-by daddying has also recently discovered

she is a full-on brat. You may already know her from her incredible podcast's shameless sex and she and her co-host April

Lampert also recently released a book by the same name so go check it out.

Welcome Amy Baldwin!

Oh thank you so much for having me here and I love that intro is probably my favorite intro I've ever heard because brats never been in there and I love being a brat so thank you.

I love that. Wait let's pause there for a minute so you discovered you were a brat.

Yes. The short version of the origin story would be when I was 18 to 22 and I was in a very

loving long-term partnership at a young age.

I knew I wanted to feel small and I didn't know how to describe it.

I would say to my partner, I want to feel small, can you make me feel small?

I'm over 5-9, 5-9-1 quarter-ish and he had no idea what to do with it. I didn't

really know what to do with it. I didn't know what that meant. I just knew that I wanted

this compact feeling that I don't feel in everyday life and I'm also

a doer, I'm a very proactive person and anyway so as the years went, I discovered that I am actually a sub.

I like percentages because I'm a very heady person.

So I go with like, I'm 90% sub-e and 10% I can be switchy,

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