Are you someone for whom the wheel never stops turning?

You're always looking for some way to do it a little bit better next time around.

People say, oh, it's the taking part that counts. It's the battle cry of the loser.

You're comparing yourself to a different standard than other people might be comparing themselves

a very high standard. That's probably in part why you do finish things.

We learn this emotional pleasure that comes from taking control.

It's an activity that seems to be eternal and universal.

We do know that board games are just about as old as civilization itself and human beings.

It's an activity that is inherently communal.

They're here four nights a week playing this card game that's been around since I was a kid.

And it's an activity in which the mere participation brings joy, regardless of outcome.

Right?

Losers look for joy. I look for victory.

Ah, victory. Well, if that's how you feel, then this is the episode for you.

How to win games and beat people. Because winning feels like this.

Hot damn! Woohoo! Yeah!

From WNYC Studios, this is Freakonomics Radio.

The podcast that explores the hidden side of everything.

Here's your host, Steven Dubner.

I love to play games. There, I said it.

For a long time, I was afraid to admit how much I like playing games because it seems a bit childish.

And as adults, we are encouraged to do away with childish things.

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