Hello lovely humans I'm Wiley and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast where we smash shame and shift social norms one sexy conversation at a time.

And our guest today is a 56 year old white bisexual male who has been monogamishly married

for over 20 years to assist woman with whom he has an understanding.

A kinky Dom who is into bondage, flogging, giving and receiving anal, naughty role play, and

over-the-nee spankings, who loves taking his sub-partner deep into subspace. He works in criminal justice

and is from Northern California.

Welcome, Tom!

Hey, thank you. Welcome!

Welcome, me! I'm so excited to have you here. Can you start off by telling us, if you

had to rate yourself on a sexual shame a meter with 10 being so full of shame and one being

not really a shamey at all, where do you fall today right now and where do you fall like in

general if there's a roller coaster? Right now in this exact moment zero. I have no shame I'll tell you whatever you want to know, whatever you want to ask.

I'll tell you. What about in the rest of your life? Like are there shamy moments or kind of like where

your numbers hover in polite society?

As far as my sex life it is private.

So I don't have any shame about it.

But there's not a lot of people that know about it. They know I have a

I kind of have a sex life. They don't know the full details of my dominant side.

One friend knows a little bit about it,

but I don't think anybody on the outside world

if they were to realize that I have a dom side

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