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REAL AF with Andy Frisella

244. Q&AF: Non-Believers Proof, Wants Vs. Needs & Toxic Skills

REAL AF with Andy Frisella

Andy Frisella

Motivation, Mfceo, Success, Media, Andy, Social, Project, Frisella, Entrepreneurship, Business, Marketing

4.932.8K Ratings

🗓️ 2 March 2022

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

In today's episode, Andy answers your questions on what to do when people don't believe in you even after the proof is there, how to operate a business with a product that people need versus a product people want, and why you shouldn't be concerned with the traits of other people.

Transcript

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0:00.0

What is up guys it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realest

0:20.3

second body of the lives the fitness and delusions of modern society and welcome the motherfucking reality guys today we have Q and a f this is where I bring the cues and you bring it wait hold on. This is where you bring the cues who brought the cues.

0:38.3

The people all right the people bring the cues and I give the a f's about that basically all right let's do the show what's the show we got a fee we do have a fee.

0:48.3

It's very simple if it made you think of major laugh if it gave you some info it's going to help make you better if it gave you new perspective the taught you something please share the show that's where we're going for here so yeah what's up dude yeah you got your trophy there my trophy yeah you do that's going right on the mantle I know it is me I mean I think it looks good here that's look good there doesn't I mean looks pretty good there yeah I expected to be bigger and blacker but this works. Yeah that's good. Yeah.

1:17.3

That was it was it was it was mediocre joke. All right. Yeah so yeah I got through good was for you. Yeah so so guys this is your first time listening we go back and forth between content we go with CTI which is more current issues what's going on most of people that listen to that walk away some sort of pissed off because I tell the truth.

1:45.3

Then we have Q and A F where I answer your entrepreneurship questions your business questions your get better questions personal development life question your life whatever man and we go back and forth so that's what we're going to do today.

2:04.3

Yeah yeah yeah guys if you want to submit your questions please email them in to ask Andy at Andy for sell it.com and with that being said brother let's knock these out question number one for you Andy and if you talked about the work in the belief right and how the belief comes after the work how do you handle the non believers whether they're in your company or in your friend group that still don't believe in you after the proof has already come how do you handle those guys I don't associate with those people.

2:33.3

I don't there are relevant I don't care like I don't I they're not on my radar I they don't exist in my mind like when they speak I don't hear them when when they're in my site I don't see them.

2:45.3

I they're invisible to me like it's that simple people do much pressure on that much interest on that dude I'm give a fuck with someone thinks of me dude.

2:54.3

Why would you want I don't understand the obsession of this I really don't really don't understand the fixation that people have on earning the approval of people that don't fucking matter what I think this holds people back more than anything like you're trying to win the opinion of someone who isn't doing anything they haven't done anything anybody who's done something like you're trying to do is going to look at what you've done and respected even if they're your competitor.

3:23.3

Alright so why are you worried about earning the approval of these people from your past whether they're your family or your friends or whoever close they are.

3:33.3

When they haven't done anything like I don't care I don't know how else to say that I really don't like it's like when people argue with me on the internet I have to value your opinion for me to exchange some sort of dialogue with you like I'm not.

3:52.3

Arguing with someone who lives in a fucking $450 apartment who is on you know for the basement yeah I'm not I'm not fucking argue that person not worth my fucking time to argue with like your life is your life my life is my life it speaks for itself I don't care if you fucking like it and if you don't like it I don't it doesn't matter yeah it's irrelevant and like I it's wasted energy dude why do you think people put put so much interest on that then because.

4:21.3

I think that people don't truly believe in themselves and they don't truly believe that they're they're good even when the evidence is there that they've done some good things I think that they still sell them so short you know I think a lot of times people are bully growing up they're told they're never going to be anything they're told they're not good enough you know I was told all those fucking things too and it can be hard to overcome those things you know and I think that even when you're not.

4:50.3

I think that even when you do achieve big things there's still people that you want you want to notice right but like at the end of the day it really doesn't matter I think it's kind of like you go through a phase like in the beginning you're just kind of working then you get to a certain level and you expect this person or these people to like somehow approve of you they're what they're going to do is they're going to pretend like they don't see you winning you know so so why are you why do you care you know just pretend you don't see you.

5:19.3

You know just pretend you don't see them back it's going to bother them worse you know and that's just me dude like I think it's wasting energy I think people that overly concerned themselves with the opinions of others limit their own success I think that energy should be put into moving forward I think that anybody I know that wins big does not put I can't think of a conversation that I've ever had with like my my entrepreneur successful friends any of them I'm trying to think back where they've ever like I think I'm trying to think about it.

5:48.3

I think they've ever like talked about someone from the past at all like they just don't care and and you have to let it go to like anytime you step outside the normal of what life is supposed to be what people are programmed to live like which is very sad existence right like get a job go to work barely pay your bills drinks and beers fucking complain about shit and do it over and over and over again and then die.

6:17.3

And it's just not a way to live so like I don't respect that lifestyle so I don't respect the opinions of people who live that lifestyle and you should neither.

6:27.3

Yeah. Yeah that's fucking real. Yeah that's real. And the question number two and you once said that if you saw if you if you had a business that sold people what they wanted instead of what they needed you would have been way more successful quicker can you elaborate on that.

6:44.3

Yeah people want ice cream they don't want fucking protein shakes people want alcohol they don't want fucking healthy fucking brownies yeah that people want fun and comfort and entertainment they don't want to get better it's not their nature to get better so when you're constantly fighting against the human nature to get better it's a harder sale right everything I sell for the most part without with the exception of being in the cannabis space or the alcohol space.

7:12.3

All those other things that I'm in which is most of my business is get people better and that is something that requires a level of education with the consumer that is not there with these other things so there's an extra step in the process when you're selling things to improve people's lives versus selling things to passify their desires.

7:31.3

All right so that's what I mean when I say that so if I were you know I'm not I'm not complaining about where I'm at because I could sleep at night and I feel like I'm contributing to people and I know I'm making people better that's a huge it's a huge deal.

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