Hello lovely humans I am wildly and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast where we talk about all things sex related in an effort to educate ourselves and each other in order to connect

so that we may all lead better laid lives. And our guest today is helping people connect in ways

that can be friendly, very friendly, or downright kinky. Our guest is the CEO of Bloom Community, the

app for sex positive and kinky people to discover events, make connections and

build community. She has over a decade of business experience in some of the biggest tech companies including

Square, Lift, Adobe, and a decade of experience building communities and events in the sex positive

and non-monogamy spaces.

She claims that her biggest kinks are creating safe containers for sexual discovery and indulging in people's deepest fears and dreams.

Luckily these two work well together.

Welcome Noah, Elon!

Hi, I feel like we could be best friends because I feel like both of us just want to get into people's like heart, right?

Like it doesn't matter the way, but it it's like share with me like your deepest

deepest desires and secrets. Oh my gosh that's the best and that usually means we're

going to have a pretty good conversation so could you please start us off by telling us if you had

to rate yourself on a sexual shameometer from one being totally shameless to ten

being so full of shame where would you say you fall right now and when if ever does it fluctuate?

I feel like I would probably say a four and I think part of it right is like being honest with

myself about what is shame right like if I think about I think about what is shame, right?

Like if I think about shame, I think about what makes me embarrassed

that other people know.

So there's things that I feel no shame about. Then I feel very transparent about sharing it with people but

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