227: The Harder the Better? with "At Last She Said It!"

Latter Day Struggles

Valerie Hamaker

Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Religion

4.4 • 721 Ratings

🗓️ 20 May 2024

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Send us a Positive Review! In this thought-provoking episode Valerie is the guest on the fabulous podcast "At Last She Said It" with hosts Cynthia Winward and Susan Hinckley. In this conversation this dynamic trio dives deep into the challenging concept of "good hard" vs. "bad hard" within the LDS community. They highlight the crucial difference between actions driven by fear and shame versus those fueled by love and personal choice. Through heartfelt personal experiences and some crit...

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0:00.0	Hi, Latter Day struggles, friends and fans.
0:03.1	We know that navigating a faith crisis can feel overwhelming, especially when it impacts our closest relationships, our parents, our partners, and our kids.
0:13.2	That's why Valerie has created two online self-paced classes to help.
0:17.3	The first is a couple's guide to faith crisis and expansion.
0:20.7	This class is here for a partner
0:21.9	or couple who want to navigate faith shifts with mutual respect and deeper connection. Next is
0:26.8	a family's guide to mixed faith parenting. This class offers tools to help parents develop
0:30.7	greater harmony and understanding when belief differences arise within our families. Both classes are
0:35.7	packed with helpful tools and perspectives that can
0:37.9	give you hope and a way forward. So if you're looking for a little guidance on this,
0:41.6	visit laddarday struggles.com to learn more. And now let's start the show.
0:49.5	When we are doing the bad hard, when we are taking in how I need to behave, how I need to be long, how I need to comply, the force or the engine that is driving that is fear.
1:07.0	Good hard is driven by love, ownership. Bad hard is driven by love. Ownership.
1:11.3	Bad hard is driven by fear.
1:14.0	I like that distinction.
1:15.5	And probably shame, the shame of I'm not good enough unless I do.
1:19.2	Oh, God.
1:20.2	Mm-hmm.
1:20.7	Mm-hmm.
1:21.7	Mm.
1:25.8	Hi, I'm Susan Hinkley.
1:46.2	And I am Cynthia Winward. And this is at last she said it. We are women of faith discussing complicated things. And the title of today's episode is The Harder, the Better. It's a special episode today, Cynthia. It is, but that title makes me not think it's so special.
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