224: 2 Effective Ways to Start Over in a Relationship

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

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🗓️ 5 March 2024

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

When you want a reset, you don’t like the track things are on… There’s too much conflict, tension or distance. Maybe you miss how passionate your relationship once was. Instead of having fun together, it feels like painful drudgery. Instead of being exhilarated together, you feel like awkward roommates. So how do you get back to the good times you once had? Is it even possible? Or was that just him being on his best behavior and now you’re seeing the real him? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, I’m sharing two effective ways to start over in a relationship.

Plus, my guest Noor felt so broken and depressed in her miserable marriage that she was making plans to leave her husband. But when she started a few new habits, their fights stopped within two weeks! Today she describes her marriage as happy, easy and funny. She’s going to tell us what she did so you can do it too.

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0:00.0	I remember that the trading point was me feeling like I was again sacrificing myself.
0:07.0	I was you know studying I was, I was making dinner, I was tidying up, I was looking for my daughter,
0:18.0	whereas he would just go to work, come back, sit on his phone, maybe play a little bit with her and then come to me and say, you know what, I'm tired.
0:28.0	And that was just, I mean, I could not hear it at that point.
0:32.0	Here I am sacrificing everything and you're not even
0:36.4	thankful, you're not appreciating my work, you're accusing me of cheating every other week and if we're going to be intimate I'm the one that has to initiate and you know look at me I'm this perfect wife and I do everything and I make myself look
0:57.3	beautiful for you you don't even know it is yeah it just it just became really ugly. It was like this, all of our problems for the last three to four years just came out of me and he just exploded as well and yeah it was really really ugly.
1:17.0	Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your
1:27.2	relationship without your man's conscious effort so that you feel desired
1:31.6	taken care of and, even if your relationship feels hopeless.
1:36.1	I'm Laura Doyle, and today I'm sharing two effective ways to start over in your relationship.
1:43.0	My guest, Noor, felt so broken and depressed in her miserable marriage,
1:48.0	she was making plans to leave her husband.
1:50.0	But she started a few new habits, and within two weeks their fights stopped.
1:57.0	She canceled her plan to leave him and today she describes her marriage as happy,
2:01.8	easy and funny. She's going to tell us what she did so you can do it too.
2:06.7	But first, here are the two effective ways to start over in a relationship.
2:12.1	When you're feeling the desire to have a reset,
2:15.0	it's because you don't like the track things are on.
2:19.0	There's too much conflict or tension
2:22.0	or too much distance and loneliness. much
2:23.0	distance and loneliness.
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