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The Daily Blade: Joby Martin & Kyle Thompson

#223 - Joby Martin // If Dad Loves Mom First, Everyone Flourishes

The Daily Blade: Joby Martin & Kyle Thompson

Joby Martin & Kyle Thompson

Devotional, Christianity, Mens Devo, Daily Mens Devotional, Religion & Spirituality, Religion, Devo, Joby Martin

5.01.8K Ratings

🗓️ 7 November 2025

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

We explore why the surest way to bless your kids is to love their mom first, grounding the call in Ephesians 5 and everyday practices that build a secure home. We offer clear steps to reorder time, protect honor, and parent from unity rather than urgency. • the sword of the Spirit as our framing • the link between marital love and kids’ security • teens experientially rich but relationally poor • Ephesians 5 as the model for husbands • practical boundaries like date nights and respect • crea...

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Blade. The Word of God is described as the sword of the spirit, the primary spiritual weapon in the Christian's armor against the forces of evil. Your hosts are Joby Martin and Kyle Thompson, and they stand ready to equip men for the fight. Let's sharpen up.

0:20.3

All right, day five, one more day of what it means to be a godly dad. One of the best

0:24.7

gifts that you can ever give to your kids as a dad is to love mom. That's right. You see,

0:31.8

more than you want experienced kids, more than you want straight A kids, more than you want

0:36.7

kids with a whole bunch of incredible

0:39.5

stories to tell and life skills, you want secure kids. And nothing will bring security in the life

0:47.3

of children like seeing dad and mom being deeply in love. Listen, I did student ministry for about 15 years. And I saw all sorts

0:57.6

of teenagers that were experientially rich and relationally poor. And what I mean by that is they

1:03.5

played on all the travel teams. They went to vacations all over the world. They drove way nicer

1:09.1

cars than I did, even though I was grown with degrees

1:11.4

and a job, and they just lived in home. I saw folks that had everything this world had to offer,

1:17.5

and yet they were steeped in insecurity because they knew when they got home, the home wasn't

1:23.4

secure because dad did not love mom. This is a part of created order, men. When men lead in love well,

1:31.3

everyone flourishes. The best thing you could do for your children is prioritize. First and foremost,

1:36.7

your relationship with Jesus, but in your home, you prioritize mom over everybody. We did a whole

1:42.6

week on this a few weeks ago, but Ephesians 5, 25, and

1:45.4

following says this, husbands love your wife, has Christ loved the church, gave himself up for her,

1:50.6

that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of the water of the word,

1:55.3

so that he might present the church to himself in splendor without spot or wrinkle, or any such thing that she might be holy and without

2:02.7

blemish in the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies he who loves his wife

2:08.9

loves himself for no one has ever hated his own flesh but nourishes and cherishes it just as christ

2:15.0

does the church because we are members of the body.

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