today on the Empowered Wife podcast.

But the next night we're supposed to go up for Valentine's Day.

I was like, let's go out for Valentine's Day, enjoy the night so that we can, let's try and enjoy ourselves.

And then the next time, the next day we'll talk, we have our talk so let's save it well we didn't make it that far we got to

Valentine's Day dinner the night we were celebrating and somehow some topic got brought up that that caused tension and I again

was like I don't want to talk about this if there's going to be tension and we kind of got a little bit

heated and he basically wanted me to admit that I was always attacking him at the

dinner table. He's like fine I'll let it go we can talk about it later but I want you to

admit that you're always attacking me something like that it wasn't those exact

works but it was similar to that and I was like but I don't think I do I don't think

I am so I don't I don't think I can say that like I didn't feel like I ever

yelled at him or came at him aggressively you know and so he got really I could see he

changed his face changed and he looked at me he's like this is not going to be good and I could feel it I just felt this

rushed through my body and he got the waitress and he got the check and he got up and he left.

Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage

without your man's conscious effort so that you feel desired, taking care of,

and special, even if your relationship feels hopeless.

I'm Laura Doyle, and today I'm revealing how I ruined Valentine's Day.

Yep, I ruined it.

My guest, Anya, was married to a narcissist, which was a struggle, but she was crushed when he told her he wanted a divorce.

He agreed to go to marriage counseling and that's when things started to turn around.

Today her marriage is happy and peaceful and they are making big plans for their future

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