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I'm a feminist, but recently I confessed to Susan McCommer, my co-pilot for today,

that when a mutual friend who was an attractive female performer was posting all of the terrible

unsolicited sexting she gets in her Instagram DMs, really terrible stuff. She gets really,

I mean, really graphic stuff, and she publishes it to educate everyone about how it is to be a female,

a celebrity, a woman in the public eye, a comedian, a performer.

When I saw this, I confessed to Susan that my first thought was that is so awful for her.

Why do men do it?

My second was why do men not ever message me inappropriate things?

Is it something I'm not putting out there?

Because I eat truly, I like three times a year, I'll get something like this,

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