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No Stupid Questions

216. Why Do We Make Excuses?

No Stupid Questions

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Society & Culture

4.63.6K Ratings

🗓️ 20 October 2024

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Is it better to explain a mistake or just accept responsibility? What’s the difference between an excuse and a justification? And why is it important to remember that you’re not a pizzeria on the Jersey Shore?

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0:00.0

I'm having an allergic reaction to this right now.

0:06.2

I'm Angela Duckworth. I'm Mike Mon and you're listening to no stupid questions.

0:12.2

Today on the show, when should you make excuses?

0:16.0

Like I tried to start the car, but it turns out that like, you know, my sister-in-law had borrowed it so it wasn't even there. Mike, we have a question from a Ken Reed from Texas and it is about excuses. You ready?

0:42.0

I'm not ready, but it's not my fault. Exactly. All right. Ken Reed says,

0:48.1

mom always said don't make excuses, but I want to know are excuses effective. For example, if you make a mistake at work,

0:58.3

is your boss more likely to look down on you for giving an excuse slash explanation or is she more likely to be

1:05.5

understanding and forgiving if you make an excuse. Are you better off if you suck

1:10.4

it up and silently accept responsibility or if you

1:13.8

explain the cause of slash reason for the mistake.

1:18.3

Such an interesting question. Do you have answers for Ken? I have so many thoughts, but my first thought Angela is about a hilarious

1:29.5

Reddit thread that I was reading recently about funny excuses that people have made.

1:35.6

There's like a Reddit thread on like great excuses.

1:38.3

Exactly, I mean sometimes you go down the wormhole, you know, and you just start reading.

1:42.1

Absolutely. Okay, so one is about a

1:44.8

substitute teacher for kindergarten who just didn't show up to teach a class and so

1:50.0

this person writes the person actually never called but when we finally got a hold of her

1:54.6

she said she didn't show up because she woke up early and decided to bake bread so she

1:59.3

couldn't come to work because she had to wait until the bread was finished. She said she could

2:04.4

work in the afternoon instead because she really needed the money and they said yeah

2:08.4

that's not how it works when you're a substitute kindergarten teacher. I feel like

2:12.2

those are the people who should be the

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