214. What No One Tells You About Sex After Kids: How To Rebuild Intimacy, Reclaim Your Sexual Confidence & Be The Same Slut You Were Before

Honeydew Me

Cassandra Anderson

Self-improvement, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 533 Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2025

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

We sat down with Susanna Brisk, Sexual Intuitive®️ and certified sex educator who's been helping individuals and couples for nearly a decade reignite their sexual spark. We're diving deep into what really happens to sex and intimacy after having kids, exploring how parenthood can reshape desire and sharing practical tools to reclaim your slutty self. We cover: How to reignite sexual connection after having kids – tips for rebuilding desire and intimacy at any stage of parenting Common myths about sex after kids – and why losing your libido doesn’t mean your sex life is over Practical ways to communicate about sex with your partner post-baby – even when you're tired or touched out Understanding mismatched sex drives in long-term relationships – and how to meet in the middle Creating emotional and physical space for intimacy with kids at home – yes, it’s possible (and v necessary) How to explore your erotic blueprint as a parent – and why rediscovering pleasure can be empowering Real strategies for prioritizing intimacy without guilt – even with a toddler banging on the door Why sexual identity shifts after parenthood—and how to embrace that change Tools for reconnecting with your body and desire – especially after childbirth or parenting burnout Why talking about sex openly can strengthen your relationship post-kids Connect with Susanna: Susanna's Website Susanna's Instagram ✨ FREE DOWNLOADABLE HERE ✨ JOIN OUR PATREON HERE⁠ to access the extended interview and exclusive content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	One in a million.
0:02.0	You're a gem shine when the light grows dim.
0:04.3	See one, two, three, four, three, two, one.
0:08.2	Because no one can do it like we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it.
0:16.4	Because no one can do it like who we do it like we do it, like we do it.
0:20.5	Because no one can do it like we do it like we do it like we do it like we do it like we do it. Hello.
0:27.2	Hello.
0:27.6	Welcome to Honeydumee podcast.
0:29.6	I'm Cass.
0:30.4	And I'm Emma.
0:31.7	And this is our podcast where we talk about life changes, relationships, friendships,
0:37.1	friendships, sex, sometimes.
0:39.3	We used to talk about it a lot.
0:43.3	Um, basically anything that you feel wrapped in shame,
0:47.3	we are your friendship blanket that also wants to be wrapped around you
0:51.3	and help you shrug off that shame jacket you're wearing
0:56.0	because it's summer or almost because it's summer babe strip down get naked get naked we're trying
1:03.0	to flare flash out our pleasure yep i don't know i don't know where you're going with that
1:09.5	me either we're trying to flash our titties. And if you follow us on Patreon, just kidding. Just kidding. Oh, we probably have a lot more patrons. Maybe. Hopefully, it'd be rude if we didn't. Anyways, hello, how are you? I'm doing great. I have a little bit of an allergy thing going on.
1:30.6	But other than that, I've been thriving. How are you? I want you to tell them the cool thing that
1:35.5	you're doing. Oh, okay. I'm sorry. There's a cool thing I've been doing. And by that,
1:41.4	I mean, I've done it once, but I loved it.
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