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Earn Your Happy

214: Everything You Want Is on the Other Side of Fear

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 1 March 2018

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

This past weekend, I spoke in front of 10,000 people at Grant Cardone’s 10X Growth Conference. And while it was one of the most amazing speaking experiences of my life, it came with a ton of doubt, lack of clarity and more nerves than I’d ever experienced.   During the weeks leading up to this event and planning my talk, I struggled to find clarity. I panicked. With several big things happening this past month, I was stuck in my own head and nothing else could come through.   “Being busy can be the biggest curse when you’re trying to be creative.”    At this point, doubt crept in and I began to wonder how the hell I even received this opportunity. I knew I was meant to be there and share a message, but I questioned if they had the right Lori Harder. So, I did what I knew I needed to do.   I reached out to my Earth angels and asked for their support and confirmation that yes, I could do this, and yes, I was meant to do this. It helped so much. My talk fell into place and it was off to Las Vegas for the conference.   However, the day before the event I felt waves of sheer terror. Dizzy at times and feeling like I was going to pass out, I told my husband, “I’m going down.” He quickly helped me reframe with questions such as, “What are you excited about? What are you grateful for?” It helped a little, but I still felt shaken. That is until I stepped onto the stage and saw all of the people. I was instantly grounded and realized that,   “No vision is given to us if it’s not for us. We must have faith in that.”   When I pictured all of my tribe who supported me, my faith kicked in and I felt calm. I felt a part of me I’d never felt. It was one of the most incredible talks.   So, the moral of the story? Have faith. Take risks – even when it scares the crap out of you.   “Stop thinking that a mediocre life is going to make you happy.”   Everything you want is on the other side of fear. It doesn’t always feel good, but it’s not supposed to. Lean into that uncertainty and know that for all the lows we experience, we often experience an abundance of highs.     -- In This Episode You Will Learn:   How Lori overcame her anxiety around speaking in front of 10,000 people Why we need full-time faith Why we need to lean into uncertainty   Resources:   A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder Now available for pre-order at http://loriharder.com/amazon Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/   Check out my website at http://loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Earn Your Happy Podcast.

0:11.8

I'm Lori Harder, founder of the Bliss Project 3 Time Fitness World Champion Fitness

0:16.7

Expert and Cover Model turned self-love junky lifestyle entrepreneur and author.

0:23.4

Each week I'll bring you a guest or a thought that will help you bust through your fears,

0:27.6

connect to your soul and get focused and clear so you can elevate your life, business

0:33.2

and relationships.

0:35.1

We don't wait until we're ready for someone to tell us we're good enough, we take what

0:39.6

we want and we annoy ourselves.

0:43.2

Get ready to earn, own, and unapologetically rock your happiness every single day.

0:51.5

Are you with me?

0:52.8

Here we go.

0:58.6

Welcome back to the Earn Your Happy Podcast and it's time for another quickie because

1:02.8

there's always time to fit in inspiration and you guys, my book is out.

1:09.2

I'm going to be talking about my book a lot because well, I've worked on it for the

1:12.9

past three or four years and it is a labor of love and I know that it has to be in

1:18.2

your hands because it's going to completely change the way that we connect to each other.

1:23.7

So if you want more support and you want real lasting relationships and connection, this

1:28.8

is definitely the book for you and you guys, if you have friends that you want to do this

1:33.5

book with, you absolutely need to either share it with them, grab it for them, tell them

1:37.8

about it because it will take you guys to the next level of friendship and in life.

1:43.8

So go check that out at LoriHunter.com forward slash Amazon.

1:47.8

I poured my heart and soul into this book and shared so many stories that I have not yet

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