Hi Ben, my name is Mars and my secret is that I founded a group chat dedicated to the singular goal of terrorizing one man.

I'm ready to tell you what compelled me to do it and all the sorted details.

Today the secret room presents Kill Bill. What he said next kind of scared the be Jesus out of me for a second.

What did he say?

He had like a lot of venom in his voice like I'd literally never heard him speak to me this way and he was like there will be dire consequences if you contact her.

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Today my guest Mars will unwind the story of a chance encounter with a charming globetrobing gentleman who wasn't everything he seemed.

Hi Mars and welcome to the secret room.

Thank you. I'm happy to be here.

Well, it's great to have you.

I can hardly wait to get into your secret because it's bananas.

I think that's an understatement actually. I think it was the whole fruit basket, Ben.

Could be. We'll see what people think when we get to the end. So just to set the

stage for your secret, can you tell me what a narcissist is to you? So behavioral

scientists say that narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health

condition in which people have a really high sense of their own importance.

They desperately want people to admire them and will often hide or alter their real personalities to fit

what they think their target is most receptive to, at least in the beginning until it gets nasty.

And you dated one of these so-called narcissists, right? Yes, unfortunately. It's been a couple of

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