212. Q +A: "Does Penis Size REALLY Matter?"

Honeydew Me

Cassandra Anderson

Self-improvement, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 533 Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2025

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

In this week's episode we're answering one of YOUR questions with a combination of expert tips, personal experience, and a bunch of research. The Question: "I think my penis might be too big for comfortable penetrative sex with my girlfriend. We’ve had open conversations about it and she’s super reassuring, but I still end up feeling guilty, like my body is somehow making things harder (pun unintended, but also… not wrong). What is actually considered a “normal” penis size? Do women even care about size as much as we’re led to believe? And most importantly—how do we make penetrative sex work for both of us, or what are some other ways we can stay intimate without feeling like we’re missing out?" We're covering: What the research says about "normal" penis size and what partners are looking for Alternatives to PIV sex that you can try Tips for making PIV sex more comfortable (toy, tools, and positions) Are some penises too big for condoms? How to find YOUR condom size BONUS: tips for if you feel like your penis is too "small" for penetrative sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello, one in a million, you're a gem shine when the light grows dim.
0:04.0	See one, two, three, four, three, two, one.
0:08.0	Because no one can do it like who we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it.
0:16.0	Because no one can do it like who we do it like we do it, like we do it, because no one can do it like we do it like we do it like we do it like we do it. Hello. Hello. Welcome to Honeydumee podcast. I'm Cass. And I'm Emma. And this is our podcast. That's all.
0:33.9	We talk about sex, relationships, friendships,
0:38.2	anything that's just riddled with shame.
0:40.7	And occasionally and a lot more often,
0:42.8	we're going to be talking about your questions.
0:45.4	Yes, we love, love, love getting your questions.
0:48.5	It makes us feel so honored that you are willing to be so vulnerable with us
0:52.9	because we are huge sluts for vulnerability.
0:56.3	And we just have all of this expert advice, not us being the experts.
1:00.9	You know who I'm talking about.
1:02.1	The hundreds of experts we've had on the podcast.
1:04.4	But what we do have is personal experience, embarrassing stories, because we just want you to leave these episodes not feeling so
1:12.4	alone because you are not alone because you are not special there you go bada bada boom i feel like
1:19.6	that could be a whole episode and in and of itself is your intro oh thank you well why don't we just
1:24.5	hit them with it let's hit them i have a hard on for this episode, so let's go.
1:29.3	Let's go.
1:30.5	Okay, I'm going to read the question.
1:32.4	Bear with me while I get through this.
1:35.0	I am not a great public reader.
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