Thank you guys so much for listening to In the Mind of Fraysh. Today is my second episode. In The Mind of Fras is all about interviews, experiences, and entrepreneurs peeling back the curtain of my own media brand. How do you break into your local media market? How do you make money? I'll get into all that later on. But this is part two of my

interview with Danny Starr, a DC radio personality, a reality star. She works for TLC, and much,

much more. She's going to reveal that story, that exclusive about her marriage and her husband,

also talk postpartum and being a woman of color. What does that mean in media and what do we need

to know? She gets into all that. Be sure to download and subscribe to this podcast on iTunes and

Spotify. Hit five stars. Leave me a review. Here's part two. We got a divorce and during the separation

things were great because we both were just relieved. We were like, okay, we don't have to do this anymore. And thank God, because it was awful, right? It's hard to keep that up. It's really hard to keep that up. But then I think I started to get frustrated because, so I've said this many times, but I think that I could have forgiven the cheating. I really could have. I could have because,

you know, I wanted my marriage to work. I wanted my family to stay together. I'm glad that it

didn't. I'm glad that in my mindset that it all fell apart. But I could have forgiven the cheating.

It was after the fact how he treated me. It was like, I did something wrong. And I didn't, that shit I did not appreciate. I was like, what, hold on, wait a minute. This doesn't feel right. And why, like, I'm begging you to love me. And it was just like all this craziness. And so then I think I started to get a lot of resentment. And then I got mean and I got really mean. And I would say awful things to him and he deserved to hear

those things but that's not who I am.

Right.

And so like is in the moment as vindicated as I felt telling him about himself and like the

stripper and like other things, I felt really vindicated in that second.

But as soon as I sent that text, I felt awful. And I was like, yes, he deserves to hear all this, but no. So you know what I did? This is crazy. I did a couple months ago. I prayed like I never prayed before. I like, I pray randomly. I'm like, God help me be a good person, you know, take care of my kids, things like that. But I never, ever pray specifically.

Now, I'm a very spiritual person. I'm not a very religious person at all. I believe in the

universe and energy and, you know, just asking. So I prayed and I said, I need peace of mind

in every situation. Because I feel like the last couple of years have really stripped away

at my peace of mind, right?

Yes. Career, personally, my marriage. Being a mom, like all these things I feel like have really

stolen a lot of my peace of mind, right? And I was like, I need to get it back and I need to protect it at all

cost. So I prayed and I said, it does not matter the situation.

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