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Honeydew Me

210. What Is a Normal Libido? Understanding Sex Drive Differences In Relationships

Honeydew Me

Cassandra Anderson

Self-improvement, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.8533 Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

We're joined once again by the LOVELY Susan Morgan Taylor, MA a somatic sex therapist and relationship coach, but this time we're diving headfirst into LIBIDO. We cover: What a normal libido looks like & how we define low vs. high libido Common myths and misconceptions about having a low libido How to navigate sex drive differences within a relationship The importance of the 3 N's: Noticing, Naming & Negotiating  Sex acts for when you're low on energy How to bring this conversation to your partner Connect with Susan: On her website On Instagram JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to access exclusive content, the video for this episode and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello, you're a gem shine when the light grows dim.

0:04.3

See one, two, three, four, three, two, one.

0:08.3

Because no one can do it like we do it, like who we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it, like we do it.

0:16.4

Because no one can do it like who we do it like we do it, like we do it, like we do it.

0:20.5

Because no one can do it like we do friendships and relationships. And we talk about it.

0:39.2

We talk about it. Because we've been there. We've been in these situations and we bring on

0:44.2

kick-ass experts to help us feel better and answer our questions. And we just want to be there for you,

0:49.4

babe. Yeah, because when you talk about it, you realize like, oh shit, maybe that's not as shameful as I thought it was. And even if it is as shameful as you thought it was, the person to your left or your right is probably experiencing the exact same thing. Because believe it or not, we're not born incredible sex havers and relationship havers.

1:11.4

No.

1:12.1

My favorite thing about this podcast and talking about it is getting the initial reaction

1:17.5

from people of like sex podcast.

1:19.9

And then once they simmer, and this is a two to five minutes simmer, they're like,

1:24.8

well, I have a question.

1:26.3

And then they pull out something from

1:29.5

their shame archive, and then we chat about it. And they walk away with a different point of view.

1:34.4

And that is what I call changing the world. And that is my, my Lord's work, you could say.

1:41.3

You could say. The work the Lord has bestowed upon his toughest soldiers, us. And here we are,

1:47.7

just spreading our legs and spreading the word. Amen, sister. Jesus did it, so can we. So can we. He did one of

1:57.5

those two things. I don't remember which. I never read the Bible. Oh, my God. Well,

2:03.5

we're not talking about Jesus today, but we are talking about low libidos with Susan Morgan Taylor,

2:11.0

which you may recall because we've talked to Susan before. So we're very excited to jump back in

2:15.1

with her. Yeah. Libito's real interesting, man.

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