So the first thing I want to do is normalize that all relationships have mismatched sex drives.

It's just impossible to find a partner who wants sex at the exact same time, in exact same way every single time that you do.

I'm Amy and I'm Abby and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions

and always being willing to grow with a purpose.

We get vulnerable and real with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face.

Every woman listening gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

I couldn't be more excited to have my friend, sex and relationship therapist Vanessa

Marin on the podcast today. I met Vanessa and her husband Zander through a mastermind that all three of us are currently in and I've loved getting to know them.

I knew she would be the perfect person to bring on to talk about sex. I put a little something in my Instagram story about

Drew and I getting in some nap time sex in over the weekend and I couldn't believe how many

people replied,

thanked me for my honesty, and then asked follow-up questions.

I know I'm not an expert in this area,

but I also knew that I knew one.

So I'm excited to fuse together personal experience,

Vanessa's professional experience,

and most importantly, your questions. This is to be a grown folks conversation so if you

have little ears in the room we're just warning you ahead of time but we are

really here to take the taboo out of it. So Vanessa, could you first introduce yourself

for our audience and tell us how you ended up becoming a sex therapist?

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