This is the Terry Cole show and as you might have guessed I'm your host Terry Cole

For over two decades I've been a licensed psychotherapist, love and boundaries

expert and I'm also the founder of the Real Love Revolution and Boundary Boot Camp.

On this show I'll bring you simple strategies based on practical psychology,

inspiring expert interviews, and my own insights and observations from my time on the

front lines in the fascinating world of entertainment, empowerment, and mental health.

Now let's get going with today's episode.

Well, hello and welcome to this week's episode of the Terry Cole Show.

I am so excited that you were hanging out with me today.

So, you know how I love to talk about love. Well, the topic that I'm going to be talking

about in this episode actually came in as an email question from someone who is in a brand new relationship and she's describing the way

her brand new boyfriend she called him is interacting with her, that he's basically perfect and that their

soulmates and that she feels like their soulmates and he's talking about all

these future things that they're going to be doing and he swept her off her feet

and the first weekend when they were spending the weekend together, they'd only been together

like three weeks, he said pack a bag and pack a lot of bathing suits and didn't even

tell her and then flew her on a private jet like that. And her question for me

was could this be real? You know, could this actually last? And you know, I had to go back and ask her a bunch of questions because could it last? I don't know. It depends on how long. This brings me to the topic, which ultimately is what she was asking me about, which she didn't know, which is what is love bombing?

Because that's what she experienced,

because after I emailed her a few things,

she told me what was going on,

which is that it didn't stay like that, it changed, that's love bombing.

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