203. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Five, High and Low Libidos
Heaven In Your Home
Francie Winslow
4.9 • 660 Ratings
🗓️ 22 July 2024
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body.
What do I do if I have a higher drive than my husband? What should I do if my sex drive seems non-existent?
Today’s episode is a fresh perspective and discussion as we unpack sexual desire and high and low libidos, which happens to be one of the most frequently asked questions.
Education and understanding can lead to celebration, therefore let’s discuss the sexual response cycle, spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and factors that contribute to seasons of higher/lower seasons of spontaneous desire.
Let’s get equipped and be encouraged as we seek to see sex and connection through a fresh lens.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Summer Loven series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes |
| 0:08.9 | and equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring, and practicals to help you see the goodness |
| 0:15.5 | of God in your bedroom and your body. |
| 0:18.5 | Summer gives us longer, more unstructured days, and I hope that the time you spend |
| 0:22.6 | with this curated series will inspire you, equip you, and meet you right where you are in your journey |
| 0:28.8 | this summer and beyond. Let's dive in. Hello, everybody. Welcome to the Heaven in Your Home |
| 0:34.9 | podcast. I'm Francie, and today we are going to be talking about |
| 0:39.0 | high and low drives i get this question all the time it's one of the top questions that i get from |
| 0:46.7 | listeners what if he has a higher drive than me and he has a lower drive when everyone tells me that |
| 0:54.1 | the man is supposed to have a higher drive |
| 0:55.8 | or it also might be my husband's drive is high and mine is low and I don't know what to do. |
| 1:01.1 | The reason I am talking about this today not only for one gender but for both is because it happens |
| 1:10.3 | in both. |
| 1:11.1 | And that is one of the pain points that many women feel is they believe that they should |
| 1:16.7 | have the higher, the husband should have the higher drive. |
| 1:20.1 | And there's something wrong if he doesn't have a higher drive and they have a higher drive. |
| 1:25.1 | And it creates some insecurity and feelings of rejection and maybe even |
| 1:30.3 | surprise in a Christian couple where possibly she was raised to believe that once she gets married, |
| 1:36.9 | she's just not going to be able to stop him. He's going to be crazy about her. And then it doesn't |
| 1:40.9 | turn out that way. And maybe both feel confused or hurt. |
| 1:44.7 | I hear this all the time from real life friends, from new friends that I meet online from the |
| 1:51.2 | podcast, reach out to me on social media. |
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