Hello lovely humans I'm Wiley and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast where we can have safe open honest conversations at the intersection of life kink and relationships

and whatever legal consensual places our desires might lead us. Our guest today

is a 40-year-old queer cisis male. He is extremely solo poly with a few partners, a

hedonist and a switch who is currently deeply exploring service doming and living an

integrated kinky lifestyle. A leather worker and a musician from Austin, Texas, welcome

Delaney.

Hey!

Can you start off by telling our listeners if you had to reach yourself on a sexual shame a meter with 10

being the most full of shame and one being no shame at all where do you fall right now

hard one I like it not just the one but a hard one. Can you tell us about your hard one please?

Well now that I got your consent I would love to tell you about my hard one.

Might get into later, but raise in a very religious home shame is a very familiar

thing and so being able to work through that being very aware of how much shame I'm feeling and the work that I've been very aware of how much shame I'm feeling and the work that I've done to get to where I'm at it's like

Shame has no place in my life. I have enough things to weigh me down. I'm gonna be happy with who I am

Totally love that.

Can you give us a little overview of what your sex life is like right now

and your favorite parts?

So it's experimental, it's fun, it's lively. Yeah, you have lots of partners. I have many

partners. So I mean and the beautiful thing about that is we get to do different

things with different people and having one partner even that's

a sexual and so we get to be sexy with each other on an emotional level and I love that so much because to me that can be sex also just like really integrating with somebody on a mental level and having that mental connection is huge just watching a horror movie together and gaking out on makeup and

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