Hello lovely humans I'm why oh Lee and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast where consenting adults share sexy stories to practice open communication around sex so we can all enjoy

the benefits.

Our guest today is a 38-year-old straight white sis fem who is single and mingling.

She's open to monogamy and lets casual partners know if she's

dating around. She's into hair pulling, spanking, and hearing what her partner enjoys, meaning

she gets turned on both by talking about sexy details ahead of time and also real-time dirty whispers in her ear from a lover.

They make her hot, wet, sometimes squirt. An engineering technician from Southern California, welcome Callenhart.

Hello.

Callenhart, if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame-a-meter, today, with 10 being the most full of shame and one being not so full of shame, where do you fall right now?

I would say between 2 and 1, so maybe about 1.5.

Okay, and when, if ever, does that fluctuate for you?

When I'm in monogamous relationships and my partner isn't showing me the affection that I need.

Okay.

When they're not showing you the affection you need, does your sham meter go up?

Yes.

It makes me feel like something's wrong and I always try to fight it off and it's

just one of the things that I still struggle with like reminding myself it's not me it's

whatever's going on with them they're not in the mood they're not you know feeling

attractive or whatever so is it all internal or is it in

conversation with them it's internal mostly and then when I get a little bit of time to think to myself then I'll bring it up to them and we'll have a conversation and then that's you know when I find out that oh well you know, when I find out that, oh, well, you know, I've been depressed lately or something like that.

Okay, so those conversations aren't the thing that spikes your shame a meter. It sounds like you're able to bring stuff up with

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