195: How to Fall Back in Love with Your Husband

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

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🗓️ 15 August 2023

⏱️ 63 minutes

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A coach recently shared with me that she decided to become a coach even though she didn’t love her husband because she wanted to be kinder. She was actually guarded against falling back in love. Then she spent a year becoming an expert on the 6 Intimacy Skills, practicing them at the highest level with her classmates. She surprised herself and did start to notice what a great man she had married decades ago. And she came to a coaches’ call recently to admit that, despite her best efforts to just leave him out of this, she was in love with her husband. So, if you don’t want to fall back in love with your husband, do not practice the 6 Intimacy Skills with a supportive community and structure or you’ll end up excited and happy to be with him. You’ll end up with a romance instead of a roommate and co-parent. He’ll seem sexy to you again. It’s crazy, I know! On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we’re talking about how to fall back in love with your husband.

Plus, my guest Julie wanted her husband to change, and he just wasn’t! With life throwing them some big curveballs, their connection was very strained. Then Julie started experimenting with the 6 Intimacy Skills™, and today her marriage is just what she wanted all along: a peaceful, fun and strong union.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the empowered wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your man's conscious effort so that you feel desired and taking care of and special.
0:21.0	Even if your marriage feels completely hopeless right now.
0:24.7	I'm Laura Doyle and today I'm talking about how to fall back in love with your husband.
0:31.5	My guest Julie wanted her husband to change and he just wasn't. Their
0:36.4	connection was very strained, but then Julie started experimenting with the six
0:42.0	intimacy skills and today her marriage is just
0:46.1	what she wanted all along. A peaceful, fun, and strong union. All that's coming up, but first let's get to how to fall back in
0:56.4	love with your husband. But first my disclaimer, here's my disclaimer because I'm
1:02.2	thinking about a coach who recently shared with me that she decided to train to become a coach even though she did not love her husband and she didn't really want to start loving her husband again.
1:14.0	She was never going to divorce him,
1:16.0	but she believed that she never would fall in love with him again.
1:22.0	So she was just taking relationship coach training because she did want to be
1:29.2	more kind to her husband and she thought that that would help. That was her goal not to fall back in love and she was actually kind of guarded against that idea.
1:40.0	And then she spent a year becoming an expert on the six intimacy skills and practicing them at the highest level with her classmates and all the coaches.
1:50.0	And she surprised herself and she did start to notice what a great man she had married decades ago.
2:00.0	And she came to a coach's call recently to admit that despite her best efforts to just leave him out of this, she was in love with her husband again.
2:10.0	So, like the pirate says at the beginning of the Pirates of the Caribbean ride at
2:16.1	Disneyland you be fairly warned says I if you don't want to fall back in love
2:21.5	with your husband do not I repeat, do not practice the six intimacy skills with a supportive community and structure, or you'll end up feeling excited and happy to be with your husband again.
2:34.3	Okay, that's what's going to happen.
2:36.0	You'll end up with a romance instead of a roommate and a co-parent.
2:41.4	He'll seem sexy to you again. I know, it's crazy, I know. But let's talk about how that happens and why that happens,
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