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Bridechilla- Wedding Planning Podcast

189- Bridechilla #FridayQuickie

Bridechilla- Wedding Planning Podcast

Evergreen Podcasts

Arts, Fashion & Beauty

4.8625 Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2016

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

I hereby sub-categorized this show today as the art of successful grievances… How to complain nicely and be heard. Successful complaints e.g. a company or individual he is what you have to say and doesn't necessarily get angry but takes your opinion and makes no of what they could improve, can sometimes be one that is hard to master but on today show I give you a couple of tips to keep your call and hopefully have a positive resolve when it comes to dealing with vendors that may not be pulling their weight or doing what you would have hoped in the relationship. I shared very fabulous voice messages from Bridechillas Hannah and Erin. Both Hannah and Erin have really got this shit together when it comes to their wedding planning and taking control of what is important to them and how to communicate that. Hannah used Dr. Lindsay Bira’s advice from episode 160 to chat with her Mum about why she isn’t participating in her wedding planning as much as she'd hoped. Bridechilla Erin shares some pretty fabulous details that she and her partner Aaron have included in the upcoming wedding to highlight and reflect upon her parents who won't be there to celebrate and support her family in finding wonderful ways to unite and show how much they mean to each other. Be on your way to wedding Planning Zen with the Bridechilla Guides! Visit the Bridechilla Store and use the Codeword LISTEN for 10% off your order! Join the Bridechilla Community on Facebook. The best Wedding Planning community around. It's bullshit-free, jerk-free and a nice place to be! Keep up to date with the Bridechilla Blog, read podcast show notes and be inspired by real Bridechilla Weddings Join Bridechilla founder, Aleisha on Instagram, for wedding inspiration and more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This is the Bridechilla podcast. It used to be called the Save the Date wedding podcast.

0:10.6

Same host, Better Jokes, new name. Enjoy the show.

0:17.0

Well, hello and welcome to the Friday Quicky. Listen to me. I sound like I'm on the home shopping network. It's Alicia here, the host of this shindig, back in my own home with my good microphone where I can lean in and talk like this. Look, we had a lovely time in Froncée. If you heard yesterday's episode, we recorded it. We is in my husband,

0:38.8

Richard and I, the sometimes co-host of this show in a hotel, a very nice hotel while we were

0:44.6

sort of quote-unquote stranded in France after an airline fucked us over. Welcome, welcome, welcome

0:50.6

to the episode where I complain a little bit. No, look, I want to actually talk today,

0:56.8

to start off this Friday quickie, just mentioning the power of a complaint letter. Now,

1:02.8

now I'm going to sound like a really crusty, annoying person, but I get a kick out of writing

1:10.3

a well-worded, calm complaint complaint letter and I'm going to be

1:14.6

writing one of those to this airline and they will not give a shit about what I have to say but I will

1:19.6

feel better including the complaint letter with my receipts that they are going to reimburse.

1:25.1

I get so many voice messages about vendors not doing their jobs or people being rude,

1:30.5

and I actually think that by sitting down and making the time to write a well-worded testimonial

1:38.1

almost to a company or individual who is shitting you off or not doing what you expect them to do,

1:43.9

and this is not being diva.

1:45.0

This is just being saying, I have asked you to do something or I'm paying you to do something.

1:50.2

You're not fulfilling that or my expectations were very underwhelmingly met.

1:57.0

That sounds wrong.

1:58.3

But the idea is to say, listen, I think this may help your business if I can tell you why this didn't work.

2:05.1

I think people go wrong with complaint letters and complaining because they become complete assholes

2:09.6

and people take offence to that because they're just being rude.

2:14.2

For example, when we were in the airline line waiting to try and move our flights

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