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ADHD reWired

187 | It only took 65 years - with Anne Hougas

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

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4.7919 Ratings

🗓️ 10 October 2017

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

This Week’s Episode: On this week’s episode of ADHD reWired, I am joined by Anne Hougas. Anne is a 65-year old who had “normal” problems growing up. Her family members have been diagnosed with ADHD. It was not until recently that Anne realized that she too, has ADHD. In this conversation, you will hear Anne share her life experiences. Anne talks about her family and being raised by parents that perhaps had ADHD. She also shares her relationship history with three marriages. Anne was a pleasure to talk with, and I think you’re going to enjoy this conversation. You’ll Learn: [07:32] - Anne talks about her family life, growing up. This includes her school performance. [12:47] - Anne explains that there was a lack of support because of her home life. [15:05] - I explain that the “it must be me” voice never goes away. [16:02] - Anne talks about her experience in high school, which included moving and going from six to two hundred peers in her classes. [18:36] - After her move, Anne found a group of friends and she explains her social activities and how that helped her come out of her shell. [20:58] - Anne talks about her relationship history in this stage of her life. [23:14] - Anne talks about moving to Wisconsin and her short college experience. [24:05] - Anne describes her social life during this stage of her life and meeting her first husband. [27:44] - Anne talks about meeting her second husband. [34:00] - Anne moves to Ohio and her second marriage ends. She talks about meeting her current husband. [41:49] - Anne talks about her husband recognizing that she may have ADHD and her parents possibly having ADHD. [54:54] - Anne thinks back to learning that her childhood and relationship with her parents is not everyone’s experience. [56:47] - Anne talks about her work history and enjoying temporary employment. [58:26] - Anne recently started taking Adderall. She talks about this experience. Use my Audible.com affiliate link for your favorite titles: ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group October is ADHD Awareness Month, and we are kicking off with early registration for the 11th season of the ADHD Coaching and Accountability Group. January 8th is the start date for this season, and you can save $400 by registering during October’s early registration drive. Schedule your October registration call now. I’m available on most Tuesdays and Thursdays. To learn more and schedule your interview, . Support the podcast on Patreon Patreon allows listeners like you to support content creators like me. With a monthly contribution, you can get access to different levels of perks. Learn more at ADHD reWired Facebook Group: If you would like to join the ADHD reWired secret Facebook group, go to and fill out an application. Productivity Q&A Get your ADHD questions answered live! These Q&A sessions take place on the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 12:30pm. Go to . Want to be a guest? Hey! What about you? Do you have a story? Are you a Coach? Are you an ADHD Clinician? If you answered yes to any of these questions and you’d like to be a guest, schedule a pre-interview call .

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0:00.0

You know he kind of experienced all this over time and he would say to me you were talking to me

0:07.2

What were you just saying and I would think I don't know I said I don't remember anymore.

0:13.0

You know, it was like seconds ago,

0:14.8

I have moved on.

0:16.1

If you missed it the first time, we're both lost. 80-H.D. Rewired episode 187.

0:30.3

This is the show designed for those of us with really good intentions, but a slightly wandering attention.

0:37.5

My name is Eric Tivers. I'm a licensed clinical social worker, coach, and speaker. The website is ADHD rewired.com.

0:47.2

We know that starting is the hardest part, so let's get started. But first first let me tell you about this.

0:55.0

Join us every second Tuesday of the month for an hour of live Q&A.

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Starting at 1230 PM Central, that's 1030 a.m. Pacific, 1.30 PM Eastern.

1:07.8

It's super easy to register. Just go to ADHD rewired.com slash events events and you can register for this one and a bunch of

1:16.2

other ones too all which is a few clicks and my system is set to maximum reminders to minimize the chances that you'll forget.

1:26.8

Get your questions answered, chat with other members of the community.

1:30.6

You can even ask your question live which may be featured on the podcast

1:35.9

The link to register is ADHD rewired.com slash events or just go to ADHD rewire at that com and click events at the top of the page.

1:47.2

We'll see you there.

1:49.5

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1:54.0

Fill out the member interest form at ADHD rewired.com

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slash community.

2:01.0

And I do appreciate your patience. It takes for you four weeks or so, give or

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or take a week or so, to get through all the requests. Support for this podcast comes from ADHD rewired coaching and accountability groups.

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Take advantage of early registration pricing now to the end of October.

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