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Coaching for Leaders

187: Community Questions on Coaching, Accountability & Wisdom, with Bonni Stachowiak

Coaching for Leaders

Dave Stachowiak

Education, Business, Management, Self-improvement, Careers

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2015

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Bonni Stachowiak TeachinginHigherEd.com Question from Jignesh I have been on a leadership course in 2012. Through the Myers Briggs Test, I have learned about my personality type and have received feedback/comparison on world's most famous leaders. I also recently read Simon Sinek's book - Start With Why. My assessment about myself has been that I am an introvert. I love working on my own. I realize that Leaders need to challenge their own comfort-zone and for me this would be to try communicating my ideas and practicing my leadership skill by interacting with others. Knowing the fact that I am introvert. I am not sure how to strike a conversation and to get maximum out of my one-on-one meeting with my stranger LinkedIn industry colleagues. I will really appreciate receiving some advice or ideas on how to strike impactful conversations. Teaching in Higher Ed episode 38: Steve Wheeler Talks Learning with ‘E’s Question from Willie I value wisdom over rules, but wisdom doesn't scale well. Our director wants a more consistent experience for our customers. Rules are the traditional method to accomplish consistency, but we can't make a rule for every scenario because each scenario is different. We do have guidelines in place, which cover the vast majority of cases, but it seems like every time an exception occurs, the natural opinion across the organization is that we need to figure out a way to address the exception in the process. Is it okay for an exception to just be an exception? Bonni mentioned Zendesk Episode 92: Barry Schwartz on How to Tap Into Your Practical Wisdom Barry Schwartz: Our loss of wisdom Question from Simon I am downunder in Australia, love your show and your podcast is a staple in my professional life as a manager of customer-facing people in the software industry. I'd like to ask if you could dedicate some time in your podcast schedule to explore "accountability". It is common these days to hear the words "empowerment" and "accountability" in the same sentence and I use them often. The empowerment side of the coin is straight forward (do what you need to do). I'm looking for ideas on the "accountability" piece. Is this a stick / carrot mentality and how have you seen people make accountability mean something that people don't just pay lip service to. Dave’s three steps: Communicate Follow-up Consequence We also mentioned: Episode 117: The Seven Steps You Follow To Delegate Work Bonni mentioned Asana and Dave mentioned Basecamp Bonni mentioned Slack Here’s a recent article about Slack in the New York Times Question from Valery My current set-up is to act as a consultant working for a large training firm. It's a good set-up as consultants do not have to worry about the prospection aspect of the job on top of providing the training. On the other hand, it can be frustrating because they are not "my" customers. My set-up is good and I can live decently from it but I am looking for creating a company based on my areas of expertise (sales consulting and coaching). I have this inner voice telling me "Valery, it's going to the right direction" but what are the steps now? There are a few companies out there providing the same expertise but the addressable market is big enough. Are there any prerequisites such as raising funds to invest into technology and/or people? How should I consider the transition between my current set up (consultant) and the entrepreneurial one? Are there new forms of associations I should think of? For example, approaching a consulting company and offering to develop an activity in sales development I would partially own from an equity stand-point? Dave mentioned the StartUp podcast and Copyblogger Audio Question from Howie Discover More Activate your free membership for full access to the entire library of interviews since 2011, searchable by topic. To accelerate your learning,

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0:00.0

It's the first Monday of the month and Bonnie and I are tackling your questions today on coaching, accountability and wisdom.

0:06.5

This is coaching for leaders episode 187.

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Produced by Innovate Learning, Maximizing Human Potential.

0:19.0

Greetings to you from Orange County, California.

0:22.0

This is coaching for leaders, and I'm your host, Dave Stahoviac.

0:26.4

This is a weekly show to help leaders improve their communication, strategy, coaching,

0:31.9

productivity, and personal mastery.

0:34.2

And once a month, the first Monday of the month,

0:36.4

we open up the lines to your questions,

0:39.6

and I almost always ask Bonnie to join me, Bonnie Stahophiac, my wife, and business professor

0:48.6

extraordinaire.

0:50.3

And also, what would be another thing I could say about you?

0:54.1

Past executive leader in corporate America,

0:59.8

officer of a company.

1:01.4

You have worn many hats throughout your career. I have. And lots of

1:05.4

wise hats. I have so many people email me and they're like the show Bonnie's

1:09.4

wisdom is so helpful. So I'm always glad you come here every month. Thank you so much.

1:13.0

Well, I'm, I would say I'm glad to be here, but I feel like some of these questions are once again

1:18.4

going to be a challenge, but we're always up for a challenge. We hopefully never seem like we have all the answers because

1:24.4

today we're certainly not going to, we're going to do our best. Yeah and I always I think

1:29.5

of these questions and I hope that we can just get people thinking about some different ways to approach things because like you said we definitely don't have all the answers on these

1:37.1

But hopefully we get you started on thinking about some resources and just thinking about things in some different ways

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