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Counselling Tutor

186 – Understanding Your Attachment Style

Counselling Tutor

Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes

Education, Courses

4.6636 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2021

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Counselling Training in Australia - Managing Digital Footprints In Episode 186 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes interviews Torrie Hall, a final-year counselling student from Australia. 'Digital Counselling Revolution' then focuses on the importance of managing digital footprints when working online, before - in Practice Matters - the presenters discuss attachment styles, and how important understanding your attachment style is for counsellors. Counselling Training in Australia (starts at 2.00 mins) Rory talks to Torrie Hall, who is a final-year counselling student in Australia, working towards her Diploma of Counselling through TAFE (technical and further education), an Australian government institution. This will enable her to become a registered counsellor with the Australian Counselling Association. Torrie talks to Rory about: similarities and differences between the Australian and UK systems for training to be a counsellor her experience of remote learning ethical bodies in Australia the role of creative teaching the structure of her course clinical supervision choice of modality counselling placements Managing Digital Footprints (starts at 15.15 mins) The BACP has recently updated its competence framework for online and telephone therapy. The new framework recognises the advances in technology since the original publication and includes a number of new competencies, including the professional competence of 'knowledge of, and ability to work with, issues of confidentiality and consent, including data protection (GDPR) and ability to monitor own digital footprint and that of the clinical work'. Rory and Ken compare digital footprints with physical footprints on the sand but note that the former is far less visible and much harder to remove. When working as online counsellors, we must therefore try to minimise our client's digital footprint, for example relating to: payment arrangements Phone bills technology platforms used in therapy information submitted to you by the client cookies search history. Ken and Rory also talk about the dangers of facial recognition software and how important it is to be very careful with your own social media presence. Understanding Your Attachment Style (starts at 24.05 mins) We may be well aware of the value of knowing our clients' attachment styles, but are you aware of what your own is? Attachment style affects how we relate to others, and so understanding your attachment style is essential knowledge for counsellors - especially when transference and/or countertransference come into play. Drawing on the work of John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, Rory talks about the four main attachment styles, and Ken equates these to Eric Berne's plain-language versions: secure = 'I'm OK; you're OK' insecure ambivalent = 'I'm not OK; you're OK' insecure disorganised = 'I'm not OK; you're not OK' insecure avoidant-dismissive = 'I'm OK; you're not OK'. Ken and Rory discuss their own attachment styles, their origins, and how understanding your attachment style will advance your counselling practice. Links and Resources Advanced Certificate in Counselling Supervision Basic Counselling Skills: A Student Guide Counsellor CPD Counselling Study Resource Counselling Theory in Practice: A Student Guide Counselling Tutor Shop Facebook group Website Online and Telephone Counselling: A Practitioner's Guide Online and Telephone Counselling Course

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Counseling Tutor podcast, the must listen to podcast for students of

0:07.6

counseling and psychotherapy. Here are your hosts, Rory Lee's Oaks and Ken Kelly.

0:15.8

Hi, I'm Rory. I'm with me as always is Ken. How are you doing, Ken?

0:20.3

Exceptionally well, I'm delighted to be here. Thank you for asking Rory. I know Rory that you are well,

0:25.4

because we've spoken before coming on air, but I wonder how you are listening to this episode.

0:29.8

You've joined us today at episode 186 of the counselling tutor podcast. We're delighted to be here

0:36.4

with you. We've got three topics that we're

0:38.6

going to be covering today. We start with our student check-in, where we look at something relevant

0:43.7

to students that are on the journey of studying counseling. Today we've got something really special.

0:49.1

We've got an interview with a counselling student from Australia called Torrey Hall, and they're going to be telling us what it's like to study counselling student from Australia called Torrey Hall and they're going to be telling us

0:56.9

what it's like to study counselling in Australia. Then we go into the digital counselling

1:01.7

revolution. That's where we acknowledge that digital technology now plays a part of how counselling

1:07.6

and psychotherapy is consumed by our clients and of course delivered by our

1:11.7

counsellors and we're going to be looking at something brand new and that is managing your

1:17.2

digital footprint now that's not a new thing but it is a topic that has just been added to the

1:23.4

recent bACP competence framework for working online and via phone. So we're going to be talking

1:29.9

about that in digital counselling revolution. And then we close with practice matters where we look

1:34.9

an element of practice as a qualified therapist. What are you likely to come across in your

1:40.3

therapy room, in your own personal development development and today we're going to be speaking

1:44.5

about knowing your attachment style and when we speak about attachment styles we often speak about

1:50.8

maybe identifying that in a client but there's a lot of personal development in knowing what our

1:55.2

own attachment styles is but let's start off rory you met up met up with Torrey Hall, Australian counselling student.

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