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Tea with Queen and J.

#185 Just F*cking Apologize

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9768 Ratings

🗓️ 11 December 2018

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Can you be a whole happy ass bitch and still want a partner (yes, obviously)? Sex work vs. sex trafficking, doula’s for everybody, and how to apologize for old sh*t. This week’s hot list: Apply for healthcare! Transness and family members, white terrorism, wash your wig in the sink it’s great, white privilege and who “deserves” what, Black Lives Matter and real estate, grown ass love and vulnerability or nah, Kevin Hart is wild fam, stop telling women to smile it’s corny and abusive, and more! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj PAY BLACK WOMEN Help Sequoia Kemp provide doula services to women who need it in Syracuse, NY Follow her on instagram @doula4aqueen Donate via cashapp $doula4aqueen Paypal: paypal.me/sequoiak Gofundme https://www.gofundme.com/doula-sponsorship-fund NOTES & EXTRA TEA Visit healthcare.gov to apply for healthcare by December 15th! Watch us on The Grapevine TV’s “White Terrorism” episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M42Yc3SPvJ4 Listen to Marsha’s Plate episode #58: Navigating Transness and Siblings: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/58-navigating-transness-and-siblings-feat-rak-marshasplate Listen to episode #97 ‘Keep Our Names Outcha Mouf’ where we first discuss Cyntoia Brown: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/97-keep-our-names-outcha-mouf Black Lives Matter Louisville is flipping houses for low income families: https://www.wlky.com/article/black-lives-matter-flips-houses-for-low-income-families/25350577 Donate to Black Lives Matter Louisville: https://actionnetwork.org/fundraising/support-stand-up-sunday Visit BLM Louisville on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blacklivesmatterlouisville/ This week's closing clip features @chicodsolo and his daughter @iambrookemonroe: https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq28SIYFa64/ Editorial support by Sam Riddell

Transcript

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay.

0:02.1

Can you be a whole happy-ass bitch and still want a partner?

0:05.2

Yes, obviously.

0:06.7

Sex work versus sex trafficking.

0:08.8

Doolers for everybody.

0:10.0

And how to apologize for old shit.

0:12.2

It's Tea with Queen and Jay people.

0:13.8

Drink up.

0:14.3

Yeah.

0:16.0

Tea with Queen of Jay.

0:18.2

Tea with Queen of Jay.

0:20.1

Yeah.

0:28.2

Yeah. What are you, J? Tee with tweeter Jay. What's up?

0:29.3

Nothing.

0:30.1

How are you, Jay?

0:31.2

I'm good.

0:31.8

I've been feeling a little bit under the weather.

0:33.9

Other than that, I'm okay.

0:35.4

Just trying to stay drinking a lot of fluids and all that shit.

0:39.1

I always found that expression.

0:40.8

Interesting.

0:41.6

Why?

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