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Tea with Queen and J.

#181 J.Lo Doesn't Have Any Black Girlfriends

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9768 Ratings

🗓️ 13 November 2018

⏱️ 86 minutes

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LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/ Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Are you an “auntie”, an “elder”, or an “old-head” and are any of those terms offensive? We explore ageism and mortality and talk shit about old exes. Have you heard of “n*ggerfishing”? (It’s a thing) Iggy Azaelia has but this song isn’t about her. And finally, women’s empowerment - what even is that shit? This week’s hot list: Queen is taking baths now, men never take baths on TV (there's a reason), J. nerds out on For All Nerds Show, our live show is 12/10 and we got dents! Catfishing gets weirder, Iggy Azalea and J.Lo have big booties so it’s cool (this is sarcasm), ageism for everyone, Be My Eyes app, Dom lemon can never leave the pit - stop asking, women’s empowerment is not another word for feminism - let’s discuss! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj PAY BLACK WOMEN Help J.’s sister Jasmine raise money towards her real estate classes: https://cash.me/$JasmineFrancis Check out Katrina Wisdom Charles bamboo earrings and more on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/piecesofwisdom21/ And shop Pieces of Wisdom on etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/PiecesofWisdom NOTES & EXTRA TEA Check out J.’s guest spot on For All Nerds Show (fka FanBros Show)!: https://soundcloud.com/fanbros/size-wars-rebel-block-party-feat-janicia-f-of-tea-with-queen-and-j Learn more about Be My Eyes app and download it here: https://www.bemyeyes.com Visit https://www.freedomprep.org to learn more about Freedom Preparatory Academy and their residency program in Memphis, TN. Contact Keishana Barnes at kbarnes@freedomprep.org if interested, and let her know you heard it on Tea with Queen and J.! This week’s closing clip features Cardi B: https://twitter.com/Raquel_Savage/status/1058836668218793988/video/1 Editorial support by Sam Riddell Engineering by Joshua Perez aka @fazefunk on IG Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/ Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay.

0:02.1

Are you an auntie, an elder, or an old head? And are any of those terms offensive? We explore ageism and mortality and talk shit about old exes. Have you heard of nigger fishing? Iggy Azalea has, but this song isn't about her. And finally, women's empowerment. What even is that shit? It's Tea with Queen and Jay people. Drink up. Tea with Queen of Jay. King T with

0:01.5

Tweeter J that shit. It's Tea with Queen and Jay people. Drink up.

0:36.9

All right. Do you remember girl? In the park, you and me. Weren't they in the park? After dark. Oh. That's what I thought they were saying. In the park after dark. Oh, I thought you and me. Two dawn, two, three. What about us? Girl. I thought they was in the park after dark. I was like, that's where you be. Doing it in the park. That's another song. That's a whole other song. Welcome to Tea with Queen and Jay. We are two women's race nerds talking shit over tea, dismantling white supremacist, patriarchal capitalism, one episode at a time. I'm Queen. I'm Jay and this is T with Queen and Jay. Am. I'm right. Hey, girl. How are you? I'm great. How are you? I'm good. We're recording late, but I feel awake because I ain't got no job. So I feel rusted. What's his name? Tommy Sean? Sean. Sean Sean strong oh I didn't remember his last name yeah Tommy over here wasn't that doesn't feel like that was his last name I never know people's names yeah Tommy though yes you Tommy I am Tommy I am Tommy I embraced that he stayed looking well rested when was unemployed, I put his name as my Instagram name. I like it. One time. Okay. No one got it though. Cool, cool, cool. If you'd like to follow the conversation being had on this podcast, you can use the hashtag T with QJ on all social media, use it on Twitter, use it on Instagram, we follow that shit,

2:01.7

we retweet that shit, we repost that shit, we talk back, all that good stuff, and other

2:06.1

listeners can do that as well.

2:08.1

Yes.

2:08.7

Use the hashtag pot in and that is a now listening hashtag and that allows people to know that

2:14.3

exists and find us.

2:16.1

So yes, use that hashtag pod. Use that hashtag.

2:19.8

Also, thank you to Josh, aka at Phase Funk on Instagram of Talking Shit Podcasts for helping

2:26.4

us record.

2:27.6

Be sure to check out Talking Shit Podcasts.

2:29.7

He's also currently one half of Kinks with Kiki Podcast.

2:32.8

So check that shit out too.

2:35.3

They are doing a live show in December. That's talking shit podcast will be on the lookout for that shit yeah joss is the opposite

2:40.2

of jay he has all the jobs yeah okay what do you not do all right i do have shit to do but okay i don't say you didn't have shit to do, but okay.

2:51.3

I didn't say you didn't have things to do.

2:52.7

Okay.

2:53.6

All right.

2:54.3

So do you want to tell the people what libations are?

2:57.0

Yes, libations are.

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