Yo today's Q-O-D is people who want the best for you always want you to be your best.

Here we go. Oh, Welcome back to the Quota the Day Show. I'm your host

Sean Croxton and Sean Croxton.com who got Oprah Winfrey on the show today

wrapping up our week. Today Oprah is going to talk about the price of

becoming successful. This is a big deal. I know we've talked about it before but

it just deserves the repetition because we're all going to deal with this if we're

not dealing with it right now. In my Money Mind Academy course I show them

Maslow's hierarchy of needs and right there in the middle is love, connection, and belonging.

And it's this middle rung that stops us because we are all wired to be part of a tribe.

Like we feel safe and secure within a tribe.

However, when we make it a goal to move to the next level in life, and then another level,

what happens is we get overcome by the threat of losing the people who are in our tribe, losing their support, losing their

affection, losing their love.

And what happens is instead of feeling, you know, alone and isolated from our tribe, we'll just go back to the tribe so we can

fit in and too many of us do this I mean it's fully understandable but I also

think that a lot of people don't realize that they're doing it.

And I also think people don't realize that it's just a natural part of life.

And Lisa talked about this yesterday.

You don't have to like fully release people of your life but you know as Bob Proctor used to say you know go less often don't stay as long

right it's a good rule to live by when you no longer feel like you fit in with the people

who are in your tribe.

And so listen up, this is a big deal.

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