Hello of the humans, I'm YOLi and you are listening to sex stories, an open-minded

space with room for all where we discuss the details of our most personal

delights. Our guest today is a 22 year old straight cis female who is

currently in a long-distance relationship of about three-ish years. She is into Phone Sex, Role Play, and Soft

BDSM, a biomedical master student, and intern from the Netherlands. Welcome Kakea.

Hey, thank you so much for having me. I'm so excited that you're here.

I didn't do your name perfect.

Can you say it for our listeners so they can hear it said properly?

Yeah, sure, it's Heke, it's a pretty Dutch name, so it's always fun when non-native Dutch people will try to say it.

Yes, can you start up by telling us if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame a meter today

with one being totally shameless and ten being so full of shame

where do you fall right now?

It's probably right in the middle five-ish six something in there. I don't usually

thought that much about sex.

When it comes up during conversations,

I might slip something in, but I won't be the one starting.

So, oh, you know what I did during the summer,

like when I saw my boyfriend, blah, blah blah blah blah that's not what I do so that is

is pretty new to me as well. I love it okay so if I'm hearing you it sounds like if you feel like you have

permission like if somebody else is like inviting it yeah okay

basically so I have to feel safe enough in that kind of way to share so I won't do it

out of myself because I don't know if the people around me want to hear it.

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