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Pints With Aquinas

168: Backbiting, Slander, and Calumny

Pints With Aquinas

Matt Fradd

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Education

4.87K Ratings

🗓️ 27 August 2019

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Today we're going to talk with Aquinas about backbiting, slander, and calumny. --- We're reading from the Secunda Secundae, Q. 73. A. 1;4. On the contrary, It is written (Ecclesiastes 10:11): "If a serpent bite in silence, he is nothing better that backbiteth." I answer that, Just as one man injures another by deed in two ways—openly, as by robbery or by doing him any kind of violence—and secretly, as by theft, or by a crafty blow, so again one man injures another by words in two ways—in one way, openly, and this is done by reviling him, as stated above (II-II:72:1)—and in another way secretly, and this is done by backbiting. Now from the fact that one man openly utters words against another man, he would appear to think little of him, so that for this reason he dishonors him, so that reviling is detrimental to the honor of the person reviled. On the other hand, he that speaks against another secretly, seems to respect rather than slight him, so that he injures directly, not his honor but his good name, in so far as by uttering such words secretly, he, for his own part, causes his hearers to have a bad opinion of the person against whom he speaks. For the backbiter apparently intends and aims at being believed. It is therefore evident that backbiting differs from reviling in two points: first, in the way in which the words are uttered, the reviler speaking openly against someone, and the backbiter secretly; secondly, as to the end in view, i.e. as regards the injury inflicted, the reviler injuring a man's honor, the backbiter injuring his good name. --- On the contrary, Jerome says (Ep. ad Nepot. lii): "Take care not to have an itching tongue, nor tingling ears, that is, neither detract others nor listen to backbiters." I answer that, According to the Apostle (Romans 1:32), they "are worthy of death . . . not only they that" commit sins, "but they also that consent to them that do them." Now this happens in two ways. First, directly, when, to wit, one man induces another to sin, or when the sin is pleasing to him: secondly, indirectly, that is, if he does not withstand him when he might do so, and this happens sometimes, not because the sin is pleasing to him, but on account of some human fear. Accordingly we must say that if a man list ens to backbiting without resisting it, he seems to consent to the backbiter, so that he becomes a participator in his sin. And if he induces him to backbite, or at least if the detraction be pleasing to him on account of his hatred of the person detracted, he sins no less than the detractor, and sometimes more. Wherefore Bernard says (De Consid. ii, 13): "It is difficult to say which is the more to be condemned the backbiter or he that listens to backbiting." If however the sin is not pleasing to him, and he fails to withstand the backbiter, through fear negligence, or even shame, he sins indeed, but much less than the backbiter, and, as a rule venially. Sometimes too this may be a mortal sin, either because it is his official duty to cor. rect the backbiter, or by reason of some consequent danger; or on account of the radical reason for which human fear may sometimes be a mortal sin, as stated above (II-II:19:3). SPONSORS EL Investments: https://www.elinvestments.net/pints Exodus 90: https://exodus90.com/mattfradd/ Hallow: http://hallow.app/mattfradd STRIVE: https://www.strive21.com/ GIVING Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd This show (and all the plans we have in store) wouldn't be possible without you. I can't thank those of you who support me enough. Seriously! Thanks for essentially being a co-producer coproducer of the show. LINKS Website: https://pintswithaquinas.com/ Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd FREE 21 Day Detox From Porn Course: https://www.strive21.com/ SOCIAL Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd Twitter: https://twitter.com/mattfradd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd MY BOOKS Does God Exist: https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&keywords=fradd&qid=1586377974&sr=8-9 Marian Consecration With Aquinas: https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&keywords=fradd&qid=1586379026&sr=8-4 The Porn Myth: https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx CONTACT Book me to speak: https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

What's up everybody, welcome to Pines with Aquinas.

0:03.7

Today we are going to chat with Thomas Aquinas about detraction,

0:08.0

calumny, backbiting, all those sorts of things that if I'm not mistaken we don't often give a great deal of thought to.

0:14.4

Welcome back to Pines with Aquinas, this is the show where you and I pull up a bar stall next to the Angelic Doctor to discuss theology and philosophy.

0:33.7

I hope you enjoyed the last three weeks here at Pines with Aquinas, we just did a three-part series on happiness with Father Ryan Mann.

0:42.8

I got a lot of terrific feedback from you all, either on social media or some of you texted me because you know my number.

0:50.7

And it was really cool to see, so I hope it was helped to you in your walk with the Lord.

0:55.6

I want to let you know what's coming up this these next like four weeks because I'm pretty excited about it.

1:00.8

Today as I already said we're going to be talking about backbiting, calumny, these sorts of things and we'll get into that in a moment.

1:07.6

But then next week in the week after I'm going to be talking with Father Gregory Pine about the emotions.

1:13.9

Aquinas has a lot to say about the emotions or the passions and it's really fascinating stuff.

1:21.2

So next week we're going to do a whole overview of the passions, it gets a little complicated so we've put together a chart and some things for you.

1:28.4

And then the week after we'll delve into the summa, see exactly what Aquinas has to say.

1:33.6

The week after that I'm going to be chatting with Emily Sullivan, I haven't recorded the episode yet but it's going to be soon on the marital debt.

1:42.0

And no I'm not talking about finances, I'm talking about the marital act that one spouse or things being equal has an obligation to give to the other to pay to the other.

1:53.4

Now I know that this is a very sensitive topic and so this is why I have Emily Sullivan coming, oh Sullivan's not a last name anymore.

2:00.0

Barry, that's right, I knew her before she was married.

2:02.3

We've had her on the show before to discuss modesty.

2:05.5

Basically my rule of thumb now is if I'm ever going to do an episode that's going to get everyone infuriated with me, especially if it has to do with women,

2:12.1

from this point on I'm just going to interview a woman about it and hopefully that'll help.

2:16.6

Okay so that's exciting, really excited about that.

2:19.0

And then finally before we get into the show I want to let you know that in the fall,

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