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Hi, everybody. Welcome to Am I the Asshole podcast. I'm Danny Vega. joined today by Jesse Jaless. Jesse, tell these people who you are. God, if you don't know me, where have you been living under a rock? I'm all over YouTube, very selective. I do comedy in New York and in Virginia when I'm home.

But who are you more? What are some, what are some nouns of who you are? You're like, you're an

actress. Oh, actress, comedian, writer, director. Killing it. Really killing the game.

And you recently had a JFL thing? Yes, I did. A series I came out with JFL just for laughs

on YouTube called It's a Date with Jesse Jalis. What a hoot it is. What a hoot. Well, we've got a

great episode for you guys today. Our second story of the day, would I be the asshole if I tell my

girlfriend she needs to bring her own food to my house and pay for the food she has eaten.

But first, AITA, for changing my wife's clothing sizes without telling her by you,

Lerk and Smirk 29. My wife gained some weight over the last year. She keeps beating herself up over it. She's always sad about her sizes and calling herself too big. She lost her excitement with shopping and a few months ago, I made a step to change that. When we shop, she'll ask me to get things for her while she's in the dressing room. She told me to get a pair of jeans shorts for her in a size 6.

This size is too small for her now, by a lot.

She's kind of in denial about this and always asks for a size 6 and then gets very upset when it won't fit at all.

She's more of a size 10 or 12 now.

So I got a bigger size and changed the sticker on the jeans so it said size six. When it fit,

she was so happy and kept showing me, saying she's so proud. She said she must have lost weight,

but doesn't know what she did. She bought them feeling very confident with herself. When we got

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