Okay, everybody. We are back. Thank you for coming back to we can do hard things, especially

after that very intense sex episode. We just did. If you haven't listened to it yet, you

really just need to go back and listen to the sex episode because this is a follow-up

to the sex episode. We had so many hundreds of bazillions of questions that people wanted

to ask about sex that we're dedicating a whole episode to the cues and I won't call

them A's. I will not call them answers because I don't really have any answers about sex,

but we're just going to call them responses. And also a disclaimer, all of our answers

and all of the things that we say are ours not intended to make anybody think or feel

a certain bad or good way about themselves. Right. Or they're also not not based on any

sort of knowledge or facts or research. Just our experience. That's it. It's our experience.

Right. Whatever we say, you're going to want to double check before enacting in your own

life. Okay. So, Sister Amanda's here. Abby's here. We're going to get all of our responses

to this first caller who wants to talk about something simple and not at all awkward

which is orgasms. Let's hear it. Not an orgasm, but the cue. Hi, Glenin and Sissy. My

name is Julie and I'm calling because I want to talk about a hard thing or orgasms. I want

to hear your thoughts on how to optimize orgasms and what it looks like to come into a healthier

relationship with your your yummy, your sacred sexuality and and I'm in my own process

of exploring that too. Thank you. Love it. Orgasms orgasms. I would like to hear Sister

your thoughts on orgasm because just go talk to us about orgasms, your relationship

with orgasms. We'd have passed it over. We'd have just hand her a nice treat. Yeah. I love

that. You're like for this one, I feel like it should be you just not it. Well, I feel

like you figured out some more things about orgasms in a heteronormative relationship

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