I don't feel like we are working as a team when it comes to money.

There are days that I couldn't afford food. I felt like.

You could definitely afford food. I mean, I guess I could.

I see how much it affects Andy and I think that he and I miss out on shared experiences.

Because of that, I think for example, like we've not ever taken any sort of like extravagant

vacation together because the cost associated with that was anxiety inducing and stressful.

I used to use New York's expensive as my excuse to not really deal with money.

I don't live there anymore. So jokes on me.

I know my father sometimes got very upset if he felt I was being wasteful with money.

It took me more than four years to finish college.

She wasn't super happy about that.

Have you ever felt good about money?

Yes, no. I guess I should now, but I don't.

I'm Rameet Sati and you're listening to the I will teach you to be rich podcast.

Today, I'd like you to meet Kate and Andy.

Andy feels very anxious around money.

In fact, he doesn't feel like he has enough to cover the basics like rent, bills, food,

let alone luxuries so that he can enjoy his life.

Oh, and by the way, his household income with Kate is over $200,000.

Let me tell you how that breaks down because it's important.

160,000 of that comes from Kate.

Andy makes 45,000 from his job and a further 25,000 from a distribution.

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