All right, ladies, this is going to be a tough conversation today on job with Julie.

Are you ready for it?

Julie, do you ever do easy conversations?

Let's be real.

Sometimes I do.

You know, sometimes it's just sort of fun.

Not this one.

Not this one.

No, definitely not this one.

Yeah.

But it's very, very necessary.

And I want to just tell a story that I heard just a few days ago just to set it up and then we'll kind of work out of there.

But I was talking to a young woman who's in college and she goes to a Christian college and her roommate and her friends all do things that she knows are wrong from the word of God.

They sleep around. They're drinking and things like that. And, you know, she doesn't know how to

handle it because on the one hand, she feels like when her roommate brings a guy to sleep in their room together, she's super

uncomfortable about it.

But yet there are other friends of hers who will say, if you say anything that's judging,

you should just be loving, you should just let people make their own decisions.

You know, you don't have to follow them, but to say to your roommate that you shouldn't be sleeping around or I don't want you bringing guys in our room, that would be judging. So I think that's just one little example that I came across just recently, but we could talk about all sorts of issues. I've never had that happen. Have you, Carrie? Oh, yeah. Oh, never. Never. Without being judgmental.

Ever.

Yeah, right. You work for authentic intimacy, so I know that's not true. This is a constant struggle. This is a constant struggle. You're right. This is not just college students figuring out how to talk to their roommates. No. We all have this. You know, we have taken some stands at authentic intimacy over the last few years on, for example, 50 Shades of Gray,

taking stands on homosexuality, transgender issues, having an affair, when you should divorce.

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