Hello lovely humans. I'm wildly and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast that I hope inspires you all to follow your deepest desires. Our guest today is a 34-year-old

cis male, he's a gamester, black American, partnered and ethically non-monogamous and

is heterosexual but not close-minded. He's really into hedonistic play and

exploration a professional creative who reframes the way we see bodies and

sexuality a man after my own heart, welcome Sky Wind.

Thank you so much for having me.

I've been looking forward to this for a while.

Me too.

Can you start off by telling our listeners, on a scale of 1 to 10, if this were your

shame a meter, and 10 is the most full of shame and one is not so

shamy at all where do you fall today today? Today?

Fuck yeah. Does it change sometimes and why and when?

For me, my shame meter definitely changes. I work in a lot of sensitive spaces and I'm in a lot of sensitive spaces, so depending on whether my opinion matters or not definitely changes the way I feel as far as like what I'm dealing with this shame as far as like when dealing with partners or sensitive situations in my interpersonal life whether I get something right or wrong, definitely, I'm extremely hard on myself. So if I know I'm wrong, my shame meter goes through the roof. Like, I don't need the talking to you. I'm having the talking to in my head. I'm a moody person so it definitely

fluctuates with what's going on in my life or how my movie is, who I'm dealing with.

And can you give us a little overview of what your sex life is like right now and what your favorite part or parts are?

My sex life right now is really interesting. I'm partnered so just dealing with everyday life can take a toll on it because we work

long hours when we work and that definitely does fix. But it's also really fun because I get to work

in these sex positive and body

positive spaces and I get to hang out in these spaces so I get to see like the

wildest shit and facilitate some of that I get to poke people into having that

type of fun.

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