#133: "Is He LOVEBOMBING Me Or Actually A Nice Person?" Learning To Trust Again After Toxic Love

The Inner Child Podcast

Gloria Zhang, MA

Ptsd, Attachment Styles, Commitment, Self-improvement, Childhood Trauma, Health & Fitness, Therapist, Inner Child Healing, Education, C-ptsd, Codependency, Alternative Health, Self Love, Dating, Asian Canadian, Relationships, Codependent Relationships, Mental Health

4.8 • 551 Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2024

⏱️ 19 minutes

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"It's not that we don't have a gut feeling, but it's that we've learned to ignore the gut feelings or we have normalized feeling bad." Do you ever have doubts whether someone is love bombing you or is actually being nice? If you've been in toxic relationships, this can definitely get confusing sometimes. So in this episode, I'll teach you what love bombing is and some practical tips on how to know if you're falling into a trap of toxic love or if it's something healthier, more genuine and f...

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0:00.0	If you're someone who's been in a toxic relationship, then you might become really suspicious
0:04.2	when someone knew is being really nice to you. Are they trying to love bomb you? Are they trying
0:08.8	to manipulate you into falling for them? And how do you learn to trust again? Plus, what is the
0:14.9	number one sign that somebody is genuinely kind, not a love bomber? Well, Bestie, today is a love-focused episode, and we're
0:23.8	going to dive into all of these right after this intro. Welcome to the Inner Child Podcast.
0:31.4	Now with two million downloads, I help High Achievers recover from painful relationships and
0:36.8	childhood trauma.
0:38.4	Let's heal together on Season 2 of the Inner Child Podcast.
0:42.7	All right, welcome back to Season 2 of the Inner Child podcast.
0:47.3	I am your host, Gloria Zhang.
0:49.4	I'm a therapist.
0:50.5	I'm a healer.
0:51.2	I'm an author.
0:52.3	But today, I'm going to be putting on my relationship coach hat
0:56.3	because we are talking a bit more about personal relationships. So the last couple of episodes
1:03.5	have been a little bit heavy. We discussed how trauma impacts us on a societal scale,
1:10.4	but today we're talking more about how these trust wounds
1:13.7	can impact us on a personal level. And in this case, it's through our relationships. So if you
1:22.1	are someone who has been in a toxic or abusive relationship in the past where you feel like somebody
1:29.2	tricked you into that relationship they kind of got you hooked onto this
1:34.1	illusion of love at the beginning of the relationship this trust wound it's
1:39.1	more than just learning how to trust other people but it's also about learning to trust our own decisions,
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